Do you consider yourself independent, or dependent? (1 Viewer)

[LeeriaYa]

I consider myself independent, and dominant as a person. I like going outside the lines of things just like how I COLOR OUTSIDE THE LINES
(just kitten. I’m not a monster like that)
It was weird because I never expected myself to be dominant, and independent. It even gets me in trouble at work because people always bring up I never ask for help. It’s just easier for me because I taught myself to do a lot of things on my own from reading and experimentation. I wish I was better at relying on friends and people though. I think it’s just a fear of possible abandonment.

So, what are you? Independent, or dependent?​

 

[brekker]

I´m very much dependant on my boss. i really need that money so here we go.

 

[Yuzuru]

I consider myself independent, and dominant as a person. I like going outside the lines of things just like how I COLOR OUTSIDE THE LINES
(just kitten. I’m not a monster like that)
It was weird because I never expected myself to be dominant, and independent. It even gets me in trouble at work because people always bring up I never ask for help. It’s just easier for me because I taught myself to do a lot of things on my own from reading and experimentation. I wish I was better at relying on friends and people though. I think it’s just a fear of possible abandonment.

So, what are you? Independent, or dependent?​

I consider myself an independent person. That's who I am.

 

[LeeriaYa]

I´m very much dependant on my boss. i really need that money so here we go.

My boss is dependent on me because only myself and another co worker show up. He has a lot of reliance on us so it’s nice, but I get what you mean. The paychecks always look nice when you depend on your boss

 

[LeeriaYa]

I consider myself an independent person. That's who I am.

It’s a nice thing to have. Do you ever wanna rely on people, or are you okay with how you are? I’m okay with how I am, but sometimes I do think I should learn reliance on the trusting people.

 

[Tickita]

Very independent.

My old supervisor told me I don't ask enough questions. I ask more questions now, but most times I find that looking for the answer myself saves me a few hours of waiting on a chat response. 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️ I still ask though.

 

[brekker]

My boss is dependent on me because only myself and another co worker show up. He has a lot of reliance on us so it’s nice, but I get what you mean. The paychecks always look nice when you depend on your boss

your boss is really lucky to have you! unfortunately mine can find a replacement for me in a minute :D

 

[LeeriaYa]

Very independent.

My old supervisor told me I don't ask enough questions. I ask more questions now, but most times I find that looking for the answer myself saves me a few hours of waiting on a chat response. 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️ I still ask though.

That’s what I do. I’ve never asked any and I still don’t. I just watch how things are done and copy it. It’s a lot easier that way because I just want the job done. Independence is a really good thing. Supervisors I thinK get intimidated when someone just does many things on their own. Because it’s like well you can find another job easier since you didn’t really rely on the people there. That’s how I feel. I even joke about how workers treat me like I’m supposed to do all the work myself, but I can find a place that’ll pay me more for it. We’re alike

 

[LeeriaYa]

your boss is really lucky to have you! unfortunately mine can find a replacement for me in a minute :D

Heck! You’re a great worker I bet and I bet you shine a lot into your job. I hope your boss treats you well.

 

[Tickita]

That’s what I do. I’ve never asked any and I still don’t. I just watch how things are done and copy it. It’s a lot easier that way because I just want the job done. Independence is a really good thing. Supervisors I thinK get intimidated when someone just does many things on their own. Because it’s like well you can find another job easier since you didn’t really rely on the people there. That’s how I feel. I even joke about how workers treat me like I’m supposed to do all the work myself, but I can find a place that’ll pay me more for it. We’re alike

Yeah I take heavy notes since we WFH now, so I have only small questions if at all

 

[Yuzuru]

It’s a nice thing to have. Do you ever wanna rely on people, or are you okay with how you are? I’m okay with how I am, but sometimes I do think I should learn reliance on the trusting people.

I'm alright with how I am, My goals is ( currently ) working on being positive person instead of negative.
I also agree that I should start to trust people, because it would be very useful.

 

[Mangoey]

maybe a mix of both? probably more dependent than independent though. I know people who call my friends and I too codependent

 

[LeeriaYa]

maybe a mix of both? probably more dependent than independent though. I know people who call my friends and I too codependent

It’s good to be a mixture because it means you do have a personality that shows you do put trust in your friends and relationships. independent can be a good thing, but too much can probably stray some away. I hope to get a balance like you

 

[Mangoey]

It’s good to be a mixture because it means you do have a personality that shows you do put trust in your friends and relationships. independent can be a good thing, but too much can probably stray some away. I hope to get a balance like you

honestly I feel like it's less a mix of both as it is that I'm super dependent, but I just incorrectly view myself as independent

 

[SnowWhite]

In between, I manage staying away from my family and in a far city for a few days but I end up losing my mind later lol

 

[pastel]

I'm technically both because for schoolwork I need my teacher's assistance for a subject that I have been having difficulty with.
For projects, I'm more dependent :)

 

[LeeriaYa]

In between, I manage staying away from my family and in a far city for a few days but I end up losing my mind later lol

Sometimes people really do need family and it’s good you reach out when you feel alone.

It’s good you have a balance

 

[LeeriaYa]

I'm technically both because for schoolwork I need my teacher's assistance for a subject that I have been having difficulty with.
For projects, I'm more dependent :)

I’m the same. Except most of the time for projects I end up trying to do most of it so my groupmates don’t feel stressed

I need my teachers help a lot, too. It’s good you ask for help. I get a bit scared to do so when it comes to teachers but it’s an improvement.

 

[pastel]

I’m the same. Except most of the time for projects I end up trying to do most of it so my groupmates don’t feel stressed

I need my teachers help a lot, too. It’s good you ask for help. I get a bit scared to do so when it comes to teachers but it’s an improvement.

Everything takes time and patience, try raising your hands once in a while. For projects, I tend to do most of the work and sometimes they don't bother helping at all
I need to participate more in my classes

 

[Mew]

Very Independent, but not to independent to ask for help, although that rarely happens.