Do You Have Anger Issues? (1 Viewer)

[Lovely_Cornchips]

Just curious-I thought I did but turns out it's something else.
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[Willow]

I DO

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

I DO

I was not expecting that from you-you seem so level headed.

 

[Villains]

No but I get mad easily at my brother

 

[eclipsoul]

i used to at one point but now i just don't care enough

 

[Willow]

I was not expecting that from you-you seem so level headed.

I mean I do get angry sometimes just because it might be too much to stand at a time.
Like I am keeping my frustration for myself until I just explode

What do you mean by level headed

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

No but I get mad easily at my brother

I feel like that's common getting super annoyed especially with your siblings.

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

i used to at one point but now i just don't care enough

IS that a good not caring or a bad not caring?

 

[eclipsoul]

IS that a good not caring or a bad not caring?

a good one

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

I mean I do get angry sometimes just because it might be too much to stand at a time.
Like I am keeping my frustration for myself until I just explode

What do you mean by level headed

Like you don't get irritated or angry over little things you manage to keep calm the majority of the time.

 

[Tickita]

Not anymore

 

[MinKarat]

Yes, but not in the way people usually view anger issues. Most people think that people with anger issues get upset easily and they become rather destructive or unreasonable, even abusive and unable to calm down. For me, I have troubles with expressing anger openly because I wasn't able to do so as a child, so instead of getting upset, I tend to become more apologetic and sad.
In recent years, however, I've been trying to express my feelings more so I think I'm doing a little better. It's not about being angry in front of people and getting mad at them, but rather confronting myself and acknowledging that I'm mad, I'm angry, I'm pissed off and then evaluating what I should do about it.

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

a good one

Good I'm glad for you then!!

 

[Willow]

Like you don't get irritated or angry over little things you manage to keep calm the majority of the time.

I try to keep calm most of the time but my brother and my father are difficult to stand

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

Not anymore

Did you work on yourself to get to that point or did it just happen?

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

I try to keep calm most of the time but my brother and my father are difficult to stand

I have this issue with my father.

 

[lotusflower]

No, I used to, but I had started doing anger management and I can handle my anger a lot better now

 

[Willow]

I have this issue with my father.

... we are the same

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

Yes, but not in the way people usually view anger issues. Most people think that people with anger issues get upset easily and they become rather destructive or unreasonable, even abusive and unable to calm down. For me, I have troubles with expressing anger openly because I wasn't able to do so as a child, so instead of getting upset, I tend to become more apologetic and sad.
In recent years, however, I've been trying to express my feelings more so I think I'm doing a little better. It's not about being angry in front of people and getting mad at them, but rather confronting myself and acknowledging that I'm mad, I'm angry, I'm pissed off and then evaluating what I should do about it.

Huh that's interesting-thanks for sharing.

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

No, I used to, but I had started doing anger management and I can handle my anger a lot better now

That's good-congratulations!