Appreciation Do you frequently confront people? (1 Viewer)

[jasque]

Why?
How does it make you feel?
Is it effective?
How do you feel after you do it?
Could it be avoided beforehand?
Do you wish you could avoid?

Are you streaming Bom mv?

 

[Day]

Why? They've done me wrong/I don't understand something/I need to clear up a misunderstanding
How does it make you feel? Gives me closure
Is it effective? Yes
How do you feel after you do it? Reassured
Could it be avoided beforehand? No? Since I confront people out of their or my own ignorance
Do you wish you could avoid? Not really, it's a necessary part of life
Are you streaming Bom mv? Casually on Spotify :pandaboss:

 

[blueberries]

Not really, i have noticed it doesn't often work that well and I would rather not get into troublesomeness of it.

 

[MamiSasazaki]

Yes and I record it on a camera

 

[amourpinks]

I'm really shy even with my closest friends, confronting people is something that I'm just really bad at.

 

[Abeamus]

Why?
Sometimes there is something that just needs to be said

How does it make you feel?
Fine, i'd rather say something and deal with those consequences than leave something unsaid

Is it effective?
Well if the other person is reasonable it can work out fine but some people aren't reasonable and they don't appreciated being confronted as much

How do you feel after you do it?
Better since I said what I felt I needed to say

Could it be avoided beforehand?
Well if they don't give me a reason to confront them I suppose

Do you wish you could avoid?
I will only do it when I feel I need to but it doesn't bother me if it comes down to it

Are you streaming Bom mv?
Not streaming but I am using the MV to listen to the song to help

 

[Mew]

No unless i need to sort out a situation there wouldn't be a point if i don't care about it.
I'm fine with confrontation usually relaxed, its usually fine and works out when i've done it, i feel lighter usually something less to do or think about.
It can't be avoided if its already gotten to the point in which i feel i have to confront something or someone. but i'm usually confrontation free majority of the time.
confrontation generally isn't a big thing for me so if it happens it happens.

And no i don't stream anything i don't have time for that.

 

[Jichuus]

Only when there is something really bad. But confrontation doesn’t always work out as I seen it being conflated with other issues so many times. I’ve seen pet peeves build up to a point where the other person is blamed for something they cannot control or something they should not or should not have to change. It all depends on the maturity level of both parties. And yes I’m watching and supporting Park Bom.

 

[kodoku]

I never really do because I'm scared of conflict....... but at least I'm streaming Bommie :)

 

[baekk]

No, I don't have conflicts like that~
Because I only have my roommate as my only friend~

 

[Deleted member 74]

I do if something bothers me, it often doesn't end up well but oh well. I guess that's just how it is.

 

[Sory]

Why?
Sometimes there is something that just needs to be said

How does it make you feel?
Fine, i'd rather say something and deal with those consequences than leave something unsaid

Is it effective?
Well if the other person is reasonable it can work out fine but some people aren't reasonable and they don't appreciated being confronted as much

How do you feel after you do it?
Better since I said what I felt I needed to say

Could it be avoided beforehand?
Well if they don't give me a reason to confront them I suppose

Do you wish you could avoid?
I will only do it when I feel I need to but it doesn't bother me if it comes down to it

Are you streaming Bom mv?
Not streaming but I am using the MV to listen to the song to help

No need to say more , this would have been my answer. Sometimes it’s just necessary, it’s better than leaving things unsaid.

 

[Minuteman]

I really don't like to confront people if I don't have to. Conflict makes me uncomfortable.

 

[jasque]

I really don't like to confront people if I don't have to. Conflict makes me uncomfortable.

Omg, only now I noticed why I wasnt seeing Preston around :pepesad: