Your a good person, cute and kind... even if you are a cat.

Selfmate is just a selfmate. Don't let him get to you. I don't think he actually intends to be outright negative. In the grand scheme of things it's you who decides how he effects you and your posts. One of best things my tiny old panda brain ever learned was how to smile and nod. Don't let the negative influence you. Just be the happy person we know.
Also, why are your DM's closed. Do you have any idea how hard it is to say nice things where everyone can read them. My rep will definitely take a hit for this but I guess your worth it.


I already had him blocked for half the year last year, just decided to give everyone a fresh start in 2024.. but its just not working, so I blocked him again. He will not affect me anymore
Because I do not wish for people to DM me