Sometimes yes. I try to let the past be in the past, but that's not possible sometimes.
Having that moment of distance before you re-engage can be helpful though. Lets you process everything first.
It's hard, but you have to change your perspective for that person.
That usually means an extended time of no contact, or not being around them.
And then you have to consciously try to think differently about them.
Even that being said, you may never fully get rid of those feelings. Just...
Welcome fellow Once! How are you handling all the concert footage floating around today???
I'm dodging it as much as possible. I don't want to be spoiled.
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