Thank you Suziepoo I think I'm gonna take yours and Dii's advice and talk to her, I'll let her be for a while so we both think over it a bit and then I'll tell he what I feel and see what happens.
Did you like him at the time when you first found out?
And that story just proves that if I do that we legit can't be friends... not even close to what we were...
Isn't it actually everything to lose? Like if I do that who knows when we will speak again if it's not how I think it is... I migh lose her and well I couldn't really live with myself if that happened...
:pepecry2:I'd have no problem with giving her time if I knew what would come out of it... as is I'm just scared of what might happen while that time passes, if she just moves on or thinks I've given up on her and doesn't say anything cause she's that type of person... scares me, all of it scares...
Thank youu, and these are the things I'm torn between tbh. Wait it out, get back to being friends or just... lay it all on the line now when it happened and see what happens...
Tbh I'd rather just have hope and have it fall to the ground then set myself up for disappointment cause if I do that I just... lose myself and I don't do stuff that I might otherwise do that would impact that hope in a way... but yea I won't just be completely hopeful but I need to hold onto...
Agreed, I almost always find myself in the I'm hopeless but still holding on to some hope situation and in the end that hope kinda holds me down even tho it literally never came true at least as far as love went.
I don't know how we would talk about it tho... as i mentioned she doesn't talk...
Yea I know... and I mean I'm not going to force her ofc that's just not who I am but it's that feeling of helplessnes when your gut is telling you something and you just can't go on that instinct...And in a way I did tell her that what she did was fine... but i also kinda didn't... and saying...
Thank you... I actually really needed someone to think so too... everyone else I talked to just said that I have to believe her when she was sober cause I have no other option... but like yea what you say is kinda what I was aiming to do... try and get back to how it was. Give space but stay...
Don't wanna take this to the ranting thread of the mental health thread since... it's... neither in a sense, and I need peoples thoughts
If y'all wanna help a guy out or are extremely bored or smn prepare for a lot of probably personal sht and stuff...
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