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  1. lotusflower

    Do you emotionally invest in idols?

    I think that there are different definitions of a stan. What may be your definition of a stan may not be mine, which is why explanations are different
  2. lotusflower

    Do you emotionally invest in idols?

    I agree, this is what I was trying to explain to someone here earlier but I sometimes I cant get the right words. People believe that in order to be a true stan, you must know everything about them and I don't understand that
  3. lotusflower

    Have you ever been to a circus?

    I have with my friends a long time ago, I would def go again if I could because I really enjoyed it.
  4. lotusflower

    Do you emotionally invest in idols?

    I don't see how people correlate being a stan with you having to know your faves personalities. That makes no sense to me in the fact that you can stan a group for their music without knowing their true personalities. I do not understand the stigma of, you must know your idols inside out in...
  5. lotusflower

    In your opinion, what should be normalized?

    weed ( I personally don't smoke but I don't get why it's not legalized yet in some places), being single, Hook-ups, being an introvert, people having their own personal opinions ( Yes people get shit for having personal opinions), Women having the same and equal opportunities as Men Edit: Also...
  6. lotusflower

    What's your best method to stay awake when you're super tired?

    I usually drink iced coffee, or ginger tea but it depends on how I'm feeling
  7. lotusflower

    Classical Watch vs Smart Watch?

    I have an apple watch so, smart watch for me
  8. lotusflower

    Do you emotionally invest in idols?

    As asked in the question above: Do you all emotionally invest in your idol's meaning, you try to connect to them on a more personal level, or do you like them solely for their music? For me, it would be that I like the groups that I like solely for their music. I say this because as you all...
  9. lotusflower

    Rumor Seo Yeji is getting embroiled too

    I just want to know how Dispatch got a hold of those messages though. I mean isn't that considered violation of privacy, unless it was given to them from a reliable source? Either way, his behavior is unacceptable and he should apologize to the staff. There was something about him trying to...
  10. lotusflower

    Do you like buying groceries?

    I do like grocery shopping, but I don't like getting up and going to the store my self so I just Insta-cart
  11. lotusflower

    Rumor Seo Yeji is getting embroiled too

    So basically she was controlling this guy like a string puppet. Seohyun deserves better, I read the article and it mentioned how he made her cry and that's messed up. Everyone deserves to be treated with respect. As for Seo Yeji, Isn't she in It's Okay to Not Be Okay? What I can't seem to...
  12. lotusflower

    What's your favorite pizza place?

    Pizza Hut and Marco's
  13. lotusflower

    Do people ever wonder what would happen if Irene left Red Velvet?

    I'm glad I'm, not the only one that thinks that because ot4 stans been getting loud these past few months, they might want to get a reality check.......
  14. lotusflower

    Do people ever wonder what would happen if Irene left Red Velvet?

    Look, I know this is totally random but Have you seriously ever thought about it? I'm not saying she's going to leave the group however, it's a possibility that it could happen. I feel that if she did Red Velvet would not last that much longer. Especially with her being the leader and the...
  15. lotusflower

    Anyone notice that JYP treats his girl groups better than boy groups?

    I totally forgot that happened, you are right they are horrible
  16. lotusflower

    Can Sejeong become as popular as Chungha? or vice versa if my perception is wrong

    Idk actually, I would say musically Sejeong kinda peaked while in Gugudan so I personally don't think she will pass Chungha in that department. Her acting is really good and I did enjoy her in the Uncanny Encounter. I feel that she should continue down the acting path as it seems to be where she...
  17. lotusflower

    Anyone notice that JYP treats his girl groups better than boy groups?

    Does anyone notice that JYP treats his girl groups better than boy groups? I mean I feel that it is kind of obvious being that they lost GOT7 like shit and they ended up leaving altogether. Jyp also treats DAY6 like shit, especially Jae. Jae has to apologize for stuff that he has absolutely...
  18. lotusflower

    Where do you think Jellyfish went wrong with Gugudan?

    Everything, especially the management, they were barely promoted. If they were in a better company like JYP or Pnation, they would have been way more successful
  19. lotusflower

    Why do people hate on couples depending on the age gap?

    I see what you are saying with the power imbalance and being taken advantage of. There have been quite a lot of cases like that in America where, the age gap is really big and, it's usually the younger person who takes advantage and then leaves the older so high and dry and then airs out the...
  20. lotusflower

    Why do people hate on couples depending on the age gap?

    As stated in the title, People tend to shit on couples with rather large age gaps. A prime example would be Momo and Heechul. Heechul being 38 (Korean age) 37 (int. age) and Momo being 24 (25 in Korean age). I find it somewhat weird but as long as they are happy then that all that ultimately...