A question? (1 Viewer)

[The_LastRomeo]

Okay today my dad asked if I wanted money I said yes and I'm getting 50 bucks, now this is the hard part... I wanna buy an album, a Kpop album, but my family is kinda judgemental
My Dad: would mostly likely ridicule me for "Buying an album full of girlies"

My mom: most likely support me but would tell me to not do if "you don't want to here your dad's mouth"

My older brothers: " Ofc you bought a Kpop album, what a waste of money"

My younger sister and older sister won't care, but what is y'all's opinion on this? Should I buy the album?

 

[scaramouche]

i say YES. bc its something u want and rlly like. nobody should be putting down your interest

 

[PloryWinxyMYBlnk]

I know it's your family, but if you really want that album, go for it.
Why should they care how you spend your money? Especially your dad. He's the one offering it to you in the first place, so why is he judging you on that?

You'll probably not hear the end of their noise for quite some time, but, it will be your money to use.
So, in the end, I think you'll be happy to buy it.

 

[scaramouche]

I know it's your family, but if you really want that album, go for it.
Why should they care how you spend your money? Especially your dad. He's the one offering it to you in the first place, so why is he judging you on that?

You'll probably not hear the end of their noise for quite some time, but, it will be your money to use.
So, in the end, I think you'll be happy to buy it.

agreed

 

[Tickita]

If he gave you the money, it's your money now. Do what you want with your money.

You're in control of your own happiness, and if that means buying the album then so be it. If they aren't saying anything helpful or constructive, and it sounds like they're just complaining about things that don't concern them, I hope you can drown them out or get them to stop or something - whatever makes sense to you.

 

[Bopper]

Which album are you thinking of getting?

If they say anything, just tell them ‘I’d rather buy something I like than *insert something they love*’

 

[Nezumi]

One thing that you do with money, is buying things you like. If you really would like to buy that album, then go for it. It's your money after all. Their opinions doesn't define your happiness.

 

[The_LastRomeo]

i say YES. bc its something u want and rlly like. nobody should be putting down your interest

I know it's your family, but if you really want that album, go for it.
Why should they care how you spend your money? Especially your dad. He's the one offering it to you in the first place, so why is he judging you on that?

You'll probably not hear the end of their noise for quite some time, but, it will be your money to use.
So, in the end, I think you'll be happy to buy it.

If he gave you the money, it's your money now. Do what you want with your money.

You're in control of your own happiness, and if that means buying the album then so be it. If they aren't saying anything helpful or constructive, and it sounds like they're just complaining about things that don't concern them, I hope you can drown them out or get them to stop or something - whatever makes sense to you.

Which album are you thinking of getting?

If they say anything, just tell them ‘I’d rather buy something I like than *insert something they love*’

Im thinking of getting Baekhyuns city lights album but I'm still choosing

One thing that you do with money, is buying things you like. If you really would like to buy that album, then go for it. It's your money after all. Their opinions doesn't define your happiness.

Thank all, your encouraging words made me emotional as I always find myself asking for others opinions, thank you all for your opinions I will think about it and probably (most likely) buy the album

 

[Nezumi]

Whose album are you thinking of btw?

 

[The_LastRomeo]

Whose album are you thinking of btw?

Baekhyuns city lights album!

 

[Nezumi]

Baekhyuns city lights album!

Okay Baekhyun. Instant buy

 

[The_LastRomeo]

Okay Baekhyun. Instant buy

Yeah but I just found out it requires paypal and I don't have paypal sadly

 

[Nezumi]

Yeah but I just found out it requires paypal and I don't have paypal sadly

Ohhh.. yes, you need Paypal indeed. I never had paypal before too. But I recently made it to be able to buy albums.. Idk if you can do the same. I don't how far your parents let you access your own money/bank accounts. But at your age I was free to do whatever with my bank account and money. I hope you can do the same eventually

 

[The_LastRomeo]

Ohhh.. yes, you need Paypal indeed. I never had paypal before too. But I recently made it to be able to buy albums.. Idk if you can do the same. I don't how far your parents let you access your own money/bank accounts. But at your age I was free to do whatever with my bank account and money. I hope you can do the same eventually

Hopefully, my mom MIGHT let me connect the card to hers but eh

 

[alo]

imo? do it. it's really not your dad's place (or your brothers' place) to ridicule your interests (with the standard toxic masculinity too, gosh, what really is new). i know it's the money your father's giving you, but you are free to use it however you want.