a secret you've never told you're family? (1 Viewer)

[Flaneur]

I was even more confused at your age

I feel you

 

[Willow]

I feel you

I didn't know back then but I had suspicions

 

[Ahsoka]

I guess how hurtful some things they say can be? My dad was recently defending a bill that Alabama was trying to pass. The intention of the bill was to eliminate the mention of anything LGBT in schools from K-12 grade. He kept saying things like “they shouldn’t be exposed to sex Ed until high school anyways” and “we need to counter LGBT propaganda because these days it’s worse to be “normal” than LGBT” and “these days heterophobia is the real issue, not homophobia”. I disagreed and pointed out some of the nonsense in what he said (so did my siblings) but I didn’t say anything about how hurtful I found it that he was so willing to side with those attitudes. He knows I’m a lesbian (I did tell him at least, idk if he remembers or know if he believes it though). I’m not expecting him to be extreme left because of it, but it just feels like he’s more willing to be partial to people who, quite frankly, probably think I’m a bad person for being lgbt (something I obviously can’t control), rather than looking at an actual example of an lgbt person (me) and actually look at my beliefs and such (I know I’m just one person, but surely he can at least start with that, rather than believe people who are raging about how the guys are trying to turn everyone else gay). Okay that went way longer than expected, it’s just something recent that I found discouraging

 

[Pirioca]

hmm I have crushes on both genders but most recent were only women so idk

Maybe you're pansexual? If you find the right person, you probably don't care about their gender.

 

[Willow]

Maybe you're pansexual? If you find the right person, you probably don't care about their gender.

That’s how I identify myself but idk if that’s accurate

 

[uran]

Wonho will take you away like a princess

I will cry in his strong big sexy arms

 

[Harmony_Starz]

I will cry in his strong big sexy arms

He will kiss your tears away

 

[Flaneur]

I will cry in his strong big sexy arms

I love Wonho's sexy arms as well

 

[Pirioca]

That’s how I identify myself but idk if that’s accurate

Don't care much about categorizing. You'll figure out what works for you.

 

[Willow]

Don't care much about categorizing. You'll figure out what works for you.

Categorising isn’t always the best, I agree

 

[luv1chii]

that ive had a relationship before....and im also talking to a boy rn

 

[Magician]

sneaked out the church's back door to meet my then-boyfriend lol

 

[Tokki]

that i have a tiny t@ttoo

 

[Yuzuru]

I love writing.

 

[_Sammy_]

I never secret

 

[Deleted member 74]

that I'm bisexual and have liked girls (we watch a show where two girls seem to be more than friends from their vibe and dynamic and their comments on how those two have been highly shipped and wanted to happen in social media only solidified that I'm never telling them because then I would be met with the same disgust I saw on their faces and it's caused a lot of internal conflict and guilt for me)
that I struggle with my mental health a lot on a daily basis and have depression and anxiety
I love my family and all but there are many things they don't know about me and many secrets I've kept in my life from them