about kids.. (1 Viewer)

[kodoku]

even if you don't have kids of your own, maybe someone in your family or one of your friends will and you end up caring about them... My question is, is there anything you want to pass on to them? whether it's life lessons and advice, or actual things.. ???

Spoiler: me

if I were to be blessed with a nice child in my life, I would teach them to be kind, to treat this planet and its people & animals well, to love themselves.. to live with heart, whether they are feeling happiness or sadness, no matter how many mistakes they make.. to embrace life and all its imperfection, and live fully. I also somehow always imagined finishing my book and having a physical copy of it made and giving it to my daughter for some reason (or someone I would love like they were mine) hehe..I just hope it would be something they treasure forever and something to guide them and remind them that they are loved and special

 

[DrowningFishy]

When I was still in contact with my nieces I'd always encourage my niece to always consider her future and strive for better then what our family has. That she could be better and do better. But sadly I failed to get my point across-one niece is preggers at 18 (not a dependent guy is the dad). I don't think I should be in charge of trying to install anything in children.

 

[kuro]

no matter what, they should put themselves first and always follow the virtues
if someone is overly selfish, that's not a good trait
but if they're overly selfless, that's not good either

 

[yeji]

I would just be caring to them. Showing them that no matter what, that they are loved.

 

[kuro]

I would just be caring to them. Showing them that no matter what, that they are loved.

you do a awesome job online

 

[yeji]

you do a awesome job online

you are the best princess

 

[kuro]

you are the best princess

you are the best mom so ofc I'm the best

 

[yeji]

you are the best mom so ofc I'm the best

we are the best together

 

[kuro]

we are the best together

best mom daughter duo

 

[yeji]

best mom daughter duo

no one can surpass us

 

[kuro]

no one can surpass us

absolutely nobody

 

[Jimimis]

they can have my jimin photocards but only after i die

 

[Mew]

Well as a parent, it's kinda expected that you pass on knowledge and skills teaching them your trade or a teade, be it fixing things or cooking so they can look after themselves also so they can become a better person than what you are and a value to society... At least thats what I try to do with my son...
I always thought being parent or a role model for a young kid your suppose to do that but that obviously that's not the case with all parents.

 

[jasque]

I'd only show the path to NLP and Gyuri

 

[SaviorITZY]

Stan Twice or disowned

 

[lostinwvnderland]

I am not a parent yet, but I do have a lot of sibling and the youngest of my sibling just turn 3. I just try my best to be a good role model for her. I want to prepare her for when she get older since school don't really teach you that. I will be 30 in 3 year, but I feel like I not really an adult yet and still learning and discovering new stuff.