Okay, not really. I'm not really a sugar baby, at least anymore. trigger warnings all of the place!
lmao if i get famous this is gonna R U I N me but i figured this would be a good storytime. DO NOT DO THIS PLEASE! I WAS UNDERAGE AND IM IN NO WAY TRYING TO GLAMORIZE THIS, ITS MY EXPIRIENCE AND HOW I TALK. THIS WAS INAPPROPRIATE AND NO ONE SHOULD DO THIS UNDER 21.
I was going through my rebellious stage, i was also starting to figure out myself sexually.
me and my friend would always talk about getting a sugar daddy, because of the money. it must be good yk? i already decided i wouldnt EVER do the deed with anyone no matter how much money. i was sexually fustrated but not desperate.
my ig was public for anyone to see, and i had cute pics up there, yk ur typical soft pink e-girl thing going on. i was a bit younger than i was now but i have a baby face that makes me look way younger than i really am, and looking back on it now really makes me sick.
anyways, i wake up to this DM basically saying "how would you feel if i could give all of the emotional affection and financial backing that you need?" following a heart emoji. i thought this was a joke, my friend was playing a joke on me. so i called it out and the guy seemed genuinely confused, i asked him to prove himself and he started shwoing off the money he had and what he does with it. i still didnt believe it. i reversed the images and nothing came up, it would be dumb of me to be like "take me now!" so i asked for more proof, he referred me to his previous sugar baby who was now married and he had said he helped pay for her college tuition. he gave me her @ (she had no idea how old i was she had no idea, but we did talk about him and told me he was legit) and we eventually had made arrangments between us:
no boyfriend (i had one anyway, he was okay with it and i told my bf i would stop talking to him if he wanted and my bf at the time said "but gucci tho")
until 9 pm i had 3 minutes to reply back to him, if not i had money taken from my allowance (which happened alot because i was in class)
no matter where i was i had to answer his calls (im surprised my parents never asked about it, i told him i had a clingy friend and they left it alone)
the money was good as long as i followed the rules, i was too excited to save any money. i was new to this, after all. my friends were starting to ask where i got this money from, and i truthfully told them, before begging them not to tell anyone. they were kinda disturbed our age gap (he was 47) but saw the money i made just from feet pics, gf pics, and phone calls and borrowed money from me. i even paid for one girls broken phone. so they didnt have too many issues.
after a few months i was curious about him because he knew so much about me but i knew nothing about him. i found out he had a kid, a boy he was 13. i was oldwer than him and that creeped me out alot. he would call me when i was in class (im sure knowing i couldnt pick up so he could take money from me) and then be angry at me for not answering his calls. he would demand i keep my ringer on so i could hear him calling and it got me into trouble alot. at one point he even made me call him my "dad" (not in the sexual way, straight up dad) and acted like he was my lifeline all the time when i was just a dumbass kid who wanted money and attention. i wasnt poor and desperate.
this doesnt have a crazy climax and im not sure whether i should apologize for that.
my boyfriend and i broke up and it was one of those puppy love heartbreaks. we argued all night (if anyone wants the story on that, i could give it, its much more lighthearted) and it ended up with me crying the rest of the night. when i woke up, i wanted a new start, inlcuding a sugar baby-less version of me. a version of me who wouldnt end up being a muder victim.
the lesson:
just dont do what i did.
lmao if i get famous this is gonna R U I N me but i figured this would be a good storytime. DO NOT DO THIS PLEASE! I WAS UNDERAGE AND IM IN NO WAY TRYING TO GLAMORIZE THIS, ITS MY EXPIRIENCE AND HOW I TALK. THIS WAS INAPPROPRIATE AND NO ONE SHOULD DO THIS UNDER 21.
I was going through my rebellious stage, i was also starting to figure out myself sexually.
me and my friend would always talk about getting a sugar daddy, because of the money. it must be good yk? i already decided i wouldnt EVER do the deed with anyone no matter how much money. i was sexually fustrated but not desperate.
my ig was public for anyone to see, and i had cute pics up there, yk ur typical soft pink e-girl thing going on. i was a bit younger than i was now but i have a baby face that makes me look way younger than i really am, and looking back on it now really makes me sick.
anyways, i wake up to this DM basically saying "how would you feel if i could give all of the emotional affection and financial backing that you need?" following a heart emoji. i thought this was a joke, my friend was playing a joke on me. so i called it out and the guy seemed genuinely confused, i asked him to prove himself and he started shwoing off the money he had and what he does with it. i still didnt believe it. i reversed the images and nothing came up, it would be dumb of me to be like "take me now!" so i asked for more proof, he referred me to his previous sugar baby who was now married and he had said he helped pay for her college tuition. he gave me her @ (she had no idea how old i was she had no idea, but we did talk about him and told me he was legit) and we eventually had made arrangments between us:
no boyfriend (i had one anyway, he was okay with it and i told my bf i would stop talking to him if he wanted and my bf at the time said "but gucci tho")
until 9 pm i had 3 minutes to reply back to him, if not i had money taken from my allowance (which happened alot because i was in class)
no matter where i was i had to answer his calls (im surprised my parents never asked about it, i told him i had a clingy friend and they left it alone)
the money was good as long as i followed the rules, i was too excited to save any money. i was new to this, after all. my friends were starting to ask where i got this money from, and i truthfully told them, before begging them not to tell anyone. they were kinda disturbed our age gap (he was 47) but saw the money i made just from feet pics, gf pics, and phone calls and borrowed money from me. i even paid for one girls broken phone. so they didnt have too many issues.
after a few months i was curious about him because he knew so much about me but i knew nothing about him. i found out he had a kid, a boy he was 13. i was oldwer than him and that creeped me out alot. he would call me when i was in class (im sure knowing i couldnt pick up so he could take money from me) and then be angry at me for not answering his calls. he would demand i keep my ringer on so i could hear him calling and it got me into trouble alot. at one point he even made me call him my "dad" (not in the sexual way, straight up dad) and acted like he was my lifeline all the time when i was just a dumbass kid who wanted money and attention. i wasnt poor and desperate.
this doesnt have a crazy climax and im not sure whether i should apologize for that.
my boyfriend and i broke up and it was one of those puppy love heartbreaks. we argued all night (if anyone wants the story on that, i could give it, its much more lighthearted) and it ended up with me crying the rest of the night. when i woke up, i wanted a new start, inlcuding a sugar baby-less version of me. a version of me who wouldnt end up being a muder victim.
the lesson:
just dont do what i did.
