Advice on dating? (1 Viewer)

[Wonpil]

I wanna start looking for a girlfriend

Like I do but like I don't wanna do online dating or anything

I've just always wanted someone to confess that they have a crush on me, but it'll literally never happen because I'm ugly and annoying but like :/

 

[Yili]

You're not ugly or annoying!
I think it depends on your age what kind of dating pools you're able to join whether it's like school clubs, the workplace, your friend circle etc. Are you willing to do like blind dating/dating apps or would you rather date someone you've known for a while as a friend?

 

[Wonpil]

You're not ugly or annoying!
I think it depends on your age what kind of dating pools you're able to join whether it's like school clubs, the workplace, your friend circle etc. Are you willing to do like blind dating/dating apps or would you rather date someone you've known for a while as a friend?

I'm 14, but I'd rather date someone I've known for a while

 

[spicy_illusion]

I wanna start looking for a girlfriend

Like I do but like I don't wanna do online dating or anything

I've just always wanted someone to confess that they have a crush on me, but it'll literally never happen because I'm ugly and annoying but like :/

As long as you can connect with someone and have things in common, then that's a start.
The goal is to eventually fall for them while they also fall for you.
Are you a girl or a guy? Because depending on whether you are a guy or girl, it may be a different type of relationship as a lesbian relationship is different to a heterosexual relationship.
Just be yourself, have fun and see how things go.

 

[Wonpil]

As long as you can connect with someone and have things in common, then that's a start.
The goal is to eventually fall for them while they also fall for you.
Are you a girl or a guy? Because depending on whether you are a guy or girl, it may be a different type of relationship as a lesbian relationship is different to a heterosexual relationship.
Just be yourself, have fun and see how things go.

 

[spicy_illusion]

Ok, so just be yourself and fall in love

 

[Wonpil]

Ok, so just be yourself and fall in love

Thank you

 

[dark_tranquility]

I've never had a proper date before, so I can't say much of anything.
I think I am also annoying to legit everyone too.

 

[Yili]

I'm 14, but I'd rather date someone I've known for a while

Hmmm then your best bet would be like school friend circles or clubs etc. Do they have a kpop club or something at your school? The best way to me if you're looking for a best friend romantic relationship is just to make friends that you really have fun with and maybe someday it'll move past that into something more romantic with one of them. You're young so you have a lot of time to meet good people

 

[Wonpil]

Hmmm then your best bet would be like school friend circles or clubs etc. Do they have a kpop club or something at your school? The best way to me if you're looking for a best friend romantic relationship is just to make friends that you really have fun with and maybe someday it'll move past that into something more romantic with one of them. You're young so you have a lot of time to meet good people

My schools pretty small. People don't really like me there 😭😔

 

[Yili]

My schools pretty small. People don't really like me there 😭😔

Is there another place that people your age tend to hang out at? I totally get you though, I had gotten into kpop around that age and I never really fit in with other people because of that among other things. That's why I joined forums is because I didn't have anyone who liked the same things as me

 

[jasque]

I'd say to not rush things.

Your happiness is more important than what others expect from you, or than what you expect from others.

 

[Wonpil]

Is there another place that people your age tend to hang out at? I totally get you though, I had gotten into kpop around that age and I never really fit in with other people because of that among other things. That's why I joined forums is because I didn't have anyone who liked the same things as me

Not really

 

[Yili]

Not really

well in the meantime all you can be is yourself and whoever doesn't like you for being that isn't worth your time in the first place. you'll find your people i promise

 

[Wonpil]

well in the meantime all you can be is yourself and whoever doesn't like you for being that isn't worth your time in the first place. you'll find your people i promise

Thanks

 

[izcream]

be yourself and the right one will come

 

[Abeamus]

Well there's no guarantee you'll like someone back who confesses to you but with what you're looking for all you can do is get to know people who you like and try to avoid getting ideas until you know they like you back.

 

[kodoku]

maybe what I'm about to say is shaped by my horrible experiences but to be honest, I highly recommend you to focus on yourself and your own life.. figuring out who you are what you wanna do.. before getting involved with someone else in that way.. dating, love, all that stuff..... it's actually dangerous, especially when someone is young and nice like you.. many people try to use that.. you have so much time for that stuff later on and I think we often idealize this whole idea of love.. so maybe give yourself time and heal up first cutie <3

 

[Saythename17]

Remember when you told that you wanna date and not to marry?

 

[yeji]

honestly feel you. online dating always made me feel more nervous. it doesn't make it better that those apps tend to have such weirdos there and people you just don't feel like talking after a day or even less.