Am I allowed to feel upset (2 Viewers)

[kisshuhua09baby]

I recently stopped being friends with this girl, I'll just call her Jeong
Me and Jeong had been pretty good online friends since about november when i saw an old post of hers and thought it was funny. But over time I started seeing her post some stuff that I really didn't like and all of posts that made me kinda uncomfortable but I didn't want to say anything as to not seem like I was starting unnecessary drama. But recently Jeong old me straight up that she didn't want to be friends anymore + doesn't agree with most of the opinions I post and while that's fine I still have a shitty feeling in the back of my mind right now. I don't know why but I just feel really upset and keep ping ponging back and forth from "screw Jeong she was always horrid" and "what if I was the bad friend the whole time and I didn't even realize" I know i shouldn't let it stress me out but its just because I can't really get why she didn't want to be friends with me anymore and its driving me crazy trying to analyze everything I've said or done in the past month or so

 

[dark_tranquility]

I had a similar experience with a missus
she and I quote "something might happen"
then I got annoyed and she just hung up on me

I do not understand peoples reasoning
I just know it wasn't my fault and she was a user at the end of the day