Am I in the wrong for lashing out at my friend (1 Viewer)

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TW for mentions of suicide. if you're sensitive to such topics please skip my thread and take care of yourself
This is about my other friend that I had made a thread about before >thread ab my horrible friend
So first things first a little context. He hadn't been been to school for a short while again and the story he gave me was that he was kicked out of the house and was living farther away with a friend and was also apparently not able to come back to school. When he had first told me I was devastated because I figured that must be hard for a person to experience. Issue one is that I had asked his gf a few days later at school if she had heard about it and apparently he had told her he ran away from home (voluntarily) which is so a different story from what I got and that's just something so dumb to lie about. And at this point I was started to get a little fed up with him so I didn't want to talk to him even if he miraculously just appeared at school again one day I wouldn't put up with the bs AND LOW AND BEHOLD he did earlier today at school. He came to lunch and tried to talk to me but I didn't say anything and dodged him entirely. He kept bugging me so finally I snapped and I told him I wasn't going to put up with his inconsiderate behavior constantly disrespecting my boundaries and never being able to keep a story straight. And do you wanna know what he did?
Possibly reflect and own up to his actions? Apologize?
NOPE! He went on about how before he met me he was so down and wanted to end his life and that I was his savior and I saved him but now since I don't wanna be in his life anymore he's suicidal. That if I don't want him around he's gonna leave again. I'm not bound by the shackles of this manipulator so I told him he honestly would be better off leaving again and after angrily ranting for another minute I moved to another table for the rest of lunch
Looking back I feel a little bad but mostly I think I did the right thing because too often do I let people walk all over me and push my boundaries and it was just getting to a point
 

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You did the right thing, those types of people are evil, you are not responsible for how someone feels! Disgusting behavior trying to put his bad thoughts on you, eugh.
 

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