An idol i regret stanning! (1 Viewer)

[seungfloral]

I never really talk about it on platforms but i was a huge fan of Kim Hyun Joong.

I actually started becoming a kpop fan by watching korean dramas and one of the first idol singers i began to follow was him. I followed his fanclub every day. He was super famous in 2009-2012 but then there was a very long feud going on with his ex. She sued him for assault and bodily harm, then she dropped it , then she again sued while pregnant with his child, then she lost the case and was counter sued for defamation. All in all i don't know what to say, the lawsuits against him were dropped in the end, but the messages exchanged between them really made me sad thinking back to the time i followed him. By the time i heard about all this ruckuss i was a shinee fan already.
I heard he is getting married , so i hope he has a successful and happy marriage now!

 

[Myth]

Yikes. Yeah you really don't know these people until the curtain's pulled back aye...

 

[Yelena_Belova]

Oh my gosh, that's horrible.

 

[seungfloral]

Yikes. Yeah you really don't know these people until the curtain's pulled back aye...

Oh my gosh, that's horrible.

I don't wanna spread hate either, it was a pretty long he said/she said thing.

But popularity wise, he was the Cha EunWoo of those days

 

[dark_tranquility]

I hope he has better luck,
feuds are always bad.

 

[The_LastRomeo]

Were they dropped because they were fake or?

 

[Boyo]

I don't know if it makes you feel better, but I also liked him during SS501's prime time (before this case).
Even if his ex lied about things, the revealed text messages between them and other stuff in this case showed me a man I didn't want to support. Also, he tried to deny that he is the father of their baby.
Now, he is married with someone else and has a son. Rumors said he rarely visited his first son and didn't pay child support, but I don't think it's confirmed.

 

[seungfloral]

Were they dropped because they were fake or?

Yeah, basically the ex also destroyed a lot of evidence that couldve have helped the case and i think lied about a bunch of stuff too.

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Assault chargesEdit
In August 2014, Kim's girlfriend, identified only by her surname Choi, filed assault charges against Kim, claiming that he repeatedly beat her, causing bruises and broken ribs.[105][106][107] Kim denied the charges, saying he had injured Choi only once and that it was an accident that occurred while he was practicing martial arts.[108] Choi dropped some of the charges against Kim in September after he apologized to her.[107] However, Kim was later fined 5 million KRW for injuring Choi, with prosecutors in the case saying, "While Kim claimed that he had no intention of hurting her, the damage from the attack was clear."[108] This was later rescinded in 2016 when the Republic of Korea's army and civil courts acquitted Kim of these charges due to evidence that came to light. Text messages between Choi, her mother and friends, statements by the director of Dispatch (the tabloid to which Choi provided her evidence) and statements given by the hospitals visited by Choi led the prosecution to state that there was "little to no credibility behind the former girlfriend's allegations that she had to receive a six-week medical treatment for her fractured ribs".[109][110] Hospital records also showed that she was not pregnant at the time she visited to get treatment for the injuries to her ribs.[109]" from Wiki

 

[seungfloral]

I don't know if it makes you feel better, but I also liked him during SS501's prime time (before this case).
Even if his ex lied about things, the revealed text messages between them and other stuff in this case showed me a man I didn't want to support. Also, he tried to deny that he is the father of their baby.
Now, he is married with someone else and has a son. Rumors said he rarely visited his first son and didn't pay child support, but I don't think it's confirmed.

I believe it would be hard to have a conection with his child if that's the relationship he has with his ex.
But yeah, the messages kinda shocked me too

 

[Boyo]

I believe it would be hard to have a conection with his child if that's the relationship he has with his ex.
But yeah, the messages kinda shocked me too

I feel sorry for the kid, tbh.

 

[seungfloral]

I feel sorry for the kid, tbh.

Yeah the real victim tbh