Any interest I had with BG's... (1 Viewer)

[baekk]

I will probably take a break from kpop (or just stick with NCT and EXO) for a while until this ends. This is just spiraling out of control, I am so disappointed & ashamed with these idols.

 

[baekk]

I have to say, its extreme generalization. There are male idols suffered from this side of the industry as well, when it comes to bad people, gender doesn't matter. Anyway, I understand your feelings, tho will still hope you can change your viewpoint.

I totally agree with you, sis~
There are so many awesome male idol/groups out there~

 

[Myco]

i don’t think anyone could “fabricate” or “fake” their entire personality, but it just shows that people show only their attractive sides on camera (or are edited that way)... and that’s always how it has been

no one can be 100% genuine, that’s impossible cause humanity?

that goes for everyone (not only kpop obviously), both boy groups and girl groups, we don’t know them personally except for their on-stage and on-camera selves

and i’m a fan of kpop for the music, performance, personality, visuals...

Yeah it's difficult to fake it all, you see those videos now turn up with the named offenders groping other female idols etc. it feels like we could've known it all this time but decided to "ignore" it, never knew about it cuz it got buried.

 

[yeji]

I honestly don‘t care much about bg‘s for some time now ( there aren’t many 3rd Gen bg‘s that get to me).
I understand everything you said. I also have been taking a step back from bg‘s but I doubt that everyone is as awful as the ones already revealed. I do think that male victims could be in this case too.
For now I am stil stanning/ loving my bg‘s from the 2nd Gen and I decide to drop the members that are involved in this case.

 

[yeji]

btw. I honestly don‘t know what to think of Highlight rn. They were one of the groups that I am into since 2010. It‘s really difficult. I still want to hope that the other 4 aren’t involved

 

[Myco]

I agree with the bolded statements. Maybe it's because I am first and foremost a BG stan and secondly a very selective GG stan, but I haven't had much of a say in this case at all since it began unfolding. I believe in the law (it hurts even me to say this, considering the situation), but more than that I believe in the power of the people - the outcry from the public will eventually bring everything to light.

I also love the boys that I stan, and I choose to believe that they are not like these scum that have already been outed. Obviously, this is just my blind trust & love in them speaking. I think that this aspect right here is what makes KPOP so dangerous. We invest so much time into our idols that we cannot handle/tolerate anything shattering their perfect images.

Will I lean more towards GGs because of this incident? No. Because women are also capable of being evil and no gender deserves this blind trust anymore than the other.

I understand OP's viewpoint, but I do not agree with it. I blame my ignorance for the way I feel, because there are so many events unfolding that I've never had experiences with or ran into in my lifetime. I don't know how it feels to be a victim or know a victim, and for that, I'm sorry to not be able to empathize. I hope justice is delivered and these individuals rot.

I pretty much have the same viewpoint as you. I still trust and love the ones I stan to not do such vile acts, especially since they still have a long road before them and they wouldn't wanna risk to lose what they have fun with. Some might just be my blind trust but for some I'm certain they would never do such things.
But it's clear that everyone wishes and hopes for the offenders to serve a long time in jail and to not have the mercy of anyone

 

[spicy_illusion]

I have changed my mind.
I'm not going to not be interested in every BG as that is a bit much.
I'll still be open to them, probably not as much as before but I'll still be open.