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[seungfloral]

On how to get out of a phone call????? Like omg i just don't wanna talk anymore

 

[Day]

Turn on do not disturb and don't answer

 

[Tickita]

Say just that. "I gotta go now."

 

[Moguri]

I'm also really bad at ending calls / conversations I do not want to continue anymore

 

[Villains]

say that you're getting another important call that you need to attend

 

[Pirioca]

On how to get out of a phone call????? Like omg i just don't wanna talk anymore

There are quite a few options:

- You are in the middle of cleaning, cooking, getting dressed.
- You urgently need to go to the bathroom (more precise: toilet).
- You have an appointment.
- You just wanted to take a nap.
- If you have a dog: you have to go for a walk.
- Interrupt the caller and tell him that you forgot something at the grocery store.
- Tell the caller you are getting another call.
- Say that your phone battery pack is getting low and you need to recharge.
- Say that your phone make weird sounds or the audio doesn't work properly.
- Open the front door quietly and ring the bell. Then say that someone's at the door and you have to hang up.

 

[dark_tranquility]

say you're on another call then hang up.

 

[athenaaa]

Tell them you have to go take a bathroom break

 

[gone4good]

How to End a Call on an iPhone (Phone & FaceTime Apps)

2 easy ways to hang up on iPhoneThis wikiHow teaches you how to hang up a call that you made or received on your iPhone. Open the Phone app. It's a green app containing a white telephone icon (📞) and can be found on your Home screen,...

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[StrayMixx]

Guys, she probably already went through with it... this was like 3 hours ago.

 

[Selfmate]

depends on the context...is it family or friends or school or someone random or government/business...

 

[seungfloral]

Turn on do not disturb and don't answer

Lmao the thing is i answered already when i posted this.

Say just that. "I gotta go now."

I did, it worked, somehow. Ofc another 5 mins after i initially wanted to say bye

I'm also really bad at ending calls / conversations I do not want to continue anymore

Me too, i feel so guilty

say that you're getting another important call that you need to attend

Lmao it was midnight already xD

There are quite a few options:

- You are in the middle of cleaning, cooking, getting dressed.
- You urgently need to go to the bathroom (more precise: toilet).
- You have an appointment.
- You just wanted to take a nap.
- If you have a dog: you have to go for a walk.
- Interrupt the caller and tell him that you forgot something at the grocery store.
- Tell the caller you are getting another call.
- Say that your phone battery pack is getting low and you need to recharge.
- Say that your phone make weird sounds or the audio doesn't work properly.
- Open the front door quietly and ring the bell. Then say that someone's at the door and you have to hang up.

Omg u are PREPARED PREPARED

say you're on another call then hang up.

yeah it was too late then TT

Tell them you have to go take a bathroom break

Lmao , i told them i need to sleep

How to End a Call on an iPhone (Phone & FaceTime Apps)

2 easy ways to hang up on iPhoneThis wikiHow teaches you how to hang up a call that you made or received on your iPhone. Open the Phone app. It's a green app containing a white telephone icon (📞) and can be found on your Home screen,...

www.wikihow.com

Omg xD Thank u but i have an android

Guys, she probably already went through with it... this was like 3 hours ago.

I did, sorry.... it lasted 56 minutes and it was already midnight, i fell asleep with my phone next to me.

depends on the context...is it family or friends or school or someone random or government/business...

It was a friend, but i sometimes feel like i'm a therapist instead

 

[Selfmate]

It was a friend, but i sometimes feel like i'm a therapist instead

I've said this a lot but we all have an emotional bucket
and every time we help a friend/family out with their emotional baggage our bucket gets filled and although we each have different sized buckets eventually it will fill up and overflow...

hope that makes sense my friend

 

[seungfloral]

I've said this a lot but we all have an emotional bucket
and every time we help a friend/family out with their emotional baggage our bucket gets filled and although we each have different sized buckets eventually it will fill up and overflow...

hope that makes sense my friend

It does, i do have other ppl to talk too as well. Also here xD altho i dont go into detail. Buuut my friend tried to ask me about myself too, just that ... i dont feel comfortable sharing my struggles with her. Does that make sense?

She is a kind person, and we are going through similar things, but sometimes i think she just needs me to listen. Also because of her different mindset i feel like i wouldn't agree with her views of my struggles. So i'm fine just being filled for one time with struggles. Altho i have to tell her more confidently that im not a fan of voice chats xD

Sorry for dumping all this on you

 

[Selfmate]

It does, i do have other ppl to talk too as well. Also here xD altho i dont go into detail. Buuut my friend tried to ask me about myself too, just that ... i dont feel comfortable sharing my struggles with her. Does that make sense?

She is a kind person, and we are going through similar things, but sometimes i think she just needs me to listen. Also because of her different mindset i feel like i wouldn't agree with her views of my struggles. So i'm fine just being filled for one time with struggles. Altho i have to tell her more confidently that im not a fan of voice chats xD

Sorry for dumping all this on you

it's all good my friend I'm older and my bucket is bigger and I play basketball every weekend to release my stress

communication my friend...as much as you think what you friend thinks or how you feel your friend will perceive your opinions and whatnot it's always good to communicate (preferably in person) and get that out there
explain to her your point of view and how each time she comes to you for venting/advice/emotional dumping it causes strains for you and that whilst you would love to continue to be her friend and help her out sometimes it can get a bit much

 

[seungfloral]

it's all good my friend I'm older and my bucket is bigger and I play basketball every weekend to release my stress

communication my friend...as much as you think what you friend thinks or how you feel your friend will perceive your opinions and whatnot it's always good to communicate (preferably in person) and get that out there
explain to her your point of view and how each time she comes to you for venting/advice/emotional dumping it causes strains for you and that whilst you would love to continue to be her friend and help her out sometimes it can get a bit much

yeah ty for listening

i did suggest shorter voice messages instead of calls, but they werent a fan :)))))

 

[ani07]

- say u have an appointmen
- say there is another call
- ring your own doorbell and pretend someone is visiting

 

[seungfloral]

- say u have an appointmen
- say there is another call
- ring your own doorbell and pretend someone is visiting

The last one is the best XD

 

[Selfmate]

yeah ty for listening

i did suggest shorter voice messages instead of calls, but they werent a fan :)))))

all good

it's not merely the shorter voice messages or anything but try to get her to understand the underlying root of the issue
shorter voice messages are a solution but one must remember that to her she doesn't even understand there is a problem to begin with and thus why would one need a solution to that (does that make sense)
and therefore getting her to understand why you feel this way is more important...

 

[seungfloral]

all good

it's not merely the shorter voice messages or anything but try to get her to understand the underlying root of the issue
shorter voice messages are a solution but one must remember that to her she doesn't even understand there is a problem to begin with and thus why would one need a solution to that (does that make sense)
and therefore getting her to understand why you feel this way is more important...

Yeah, i guess so. For her it's easier cause she wants to practise her english. Which is fine, but it turns into hours of talk