Anyone else find people annoying and like to stay alone??? (1 Viewer)

[Hajima]

So in the past year or so I became really distant from everyone... like family.. I have moved out, don't keep up with friends anymore or if they call I will give an excuse not to meet them, I just will feel annoyed and I feel like I am not connected to them?? Like I just don't care maybe i am becoming greedy and just care about myself... I used to be very social person... but now I really don't care much most of the time I would go to the movies or a club like maybe once a week but that's about it and Idk what the reason truly is... nothing have changed much!!!

I feel like i am happier being alone than hanging with someone else and caring about their feelings..... I guess something wrong with me lol..

 

[potato]

I don't think it's wrong to want to be alone from other people. People work differently and some prefer to be alone and other prefer to be with others. Being alone give you a lot of time to think and lots of time to yourself.

Change isn't wrong and people change all the time. I don't think wanting to be away from other people is a bad thing.

 

[DrowningFishy]

So in the past year or so I became really distant from everyone... like family.. I have moved out, don't keep up with friends anymore or if they call I will give an excuse not to meet them, I just will feel annoyed and I feel like I am not connected to them?? Like I just don't care maybe i am becoming greedy and just care about myself... I used to be very social person... but now I really don't care much most of the time I would go to the movies or a club like maybe once a week but that's about it and Idk what the reason truly is... nothing have changed much!!!

I feel like i am happier being alone than hanging with someone else and caring about their feelings..... I guess something wrong with me lol..

You know that is another form of how depression reels it's ugly head. It's not simply feeling down and out. Void and emptiness is a "quiet" depression. I understand sometimes the bonds aren't there but the fact all bonds are failing means you should be thinking about your mental health.

 

[kodoku]

everyone is different and it's okay to wanna be alone more often than others, but be careful not to isolate yourself and loose the people who wish you well and want you in their lives because that's such a precious thing. Instead of making obvious excuses that will drive them away, maybe text them and let them know you need some time on your own while also thanking them.. I think that might be a bit better. I do understand tho since I've always been a loner. In a way, by choice and in a way, because life forced me to hehe

 

[jasque]

I'm ok with people when they are silent.