Are you drawn to someone similar or different from you? (1 Viewer)

[lily]

i would say someone similar when it comes to values.
if there's at least one common interest then it's good

 

[Ahsoka]

I would prefer in the middle. Similarities to bond over and share, but different things to learn about and discover with them. Ofc within reason, if they’re a literal Nazi and that’s the difference then no thanks

 

[athenaaa]

Enough differences to learn from them but some similarities so that we can do things together more easily

 

[snsd2beg]

Ideally a balance but I naturally like those who are similar more

 

[Belgizen]

i would say someone similar when it comes to values.
if there's at least one common interest then it's good

exactly this ^
I would also add someone who can make me laugh. Usually I'm the person making everyone laugh

 

[Willow]

exactly this ^
I would also add someone who can make me laugh. Usually I'm the person making everyone laugh

Agreed

 

[Pirioca]

Enough differences to learn from them but some similarities so that we can do things together more easily

This

 

[Yuzuru]

That depends. If they're different in beliefs/values I'd love to hear them speak why.

 

[Selfmate]

when you are saying drawn to you mean romantically?

either way it depends on their looks and personality and the whole package

 

[Itto]

Someone who is at least somewhat similar to me

 

[Deleted member 74]

I don't think I could answer this question generally I think this question would depend on the specific person whether it's platonically or more
like some similarities I find in certain people I'm drawn to, others I am not drawn to, and vice versa for differences
also being too similar can lead to pretty interesting dynamics, but so can having many differences
for differences, it has to be within reason, and having at least somewhat similar morals in life matter~

 

[dark_tranquility]

different from myself

 

[SnowWhite]

I know I cant f**cking stand someone on the far left politically, or any Democrat person for that matter. Other than that, im very tiny and petite and i prefer the guy to be different than me in that terms. Very strong and muscular.

 

[Flaneur]

I don't know I actually get along with people who are literal opposite of me more than with people who are like me