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[The_LastRomeo]

You could tell your favs how much you appreciate them? I saw on tumblr an Exo fan told Chen that his daughters are lucky to have a father like him, the utter happiness in his face when she said it I feel he really needed to hear that from a fan. He has and still is getting constant hate form being in love and Chanyeol is too, I also worry Yiren might be dragged in Korea. Why can’t we just appreciate them for who they are and leave them alone? They literally did nothing wrong!

 

[Selfmate]

love no?
appreciate them yes
more like a quick thank you

 

[The_LastRomeo]

love no?
appreciate them yes
more like a quick thank you

Oh yeah, it was in the moment meant to say appreciate heh
Agreed!

 

[Selfmate]

Oh yeah, it was in the moment meant to say appreciate heh
Agreed!

it's not you my friend
it's me with the language specifically over "love"
I think (again personal opinion) love should be reserved for like something deeper and more connecting like the love of a parent or husband/wife or something more sentimental as oppose to any body saying " OMG I love [insert kpop group/idol] "

does that make sense?

 

[PloryWinxyMYBlnk]

You could tell your favs how much you love them? I saw on tumblr an Exo fan told Chen that his daughters are lucky to have a father like him, the utter happiness in his face when she said it I feel he really needed to hear that from a fan. He has and still is getting constant hate form being in love and Chanyeol is too, I also worry Yiren might be dragged in Korea. Why can’t we just appreciate them for who they are and leave them alone? They literally did nothing wrong!

Because the moment that "popular celebrity" spotlight shines on them, people think it's okay to know everything about them no matter the consequences. Hence, why there are saesangs [ stalker/obsessive fans ] who do not care about boundaries and personal spaces.

What normal fan would not want to personally meet the idols and tell them they're loved and appreciated?
Unfortunately, it's the price of fame for celebrities-- they get both the normal, appreciative, respectfully loving fans and pieces of crap.

 

[Pirioca]

I can say that I 'love' a song (because it touches my heart). But loving a person is something much more deeper. Appreciation? Yes! Being attracted by the beauty and charisma of an idol. Yes! Love? Nope. Unless I'd date an idol and would fall in love with her (this will most likely not happen in this incarnation).

 

[The_LastRomeo]

it's not you my friend
it's me with the language specifically over "love"
I think (again personal opinion) love should be reserved for like something deeper and more connecting like the love of a parent or husband/wife or something more sentimental as oppose to any body saying " OMG I love [insert kpop group/idol] "

does that make sense?

Yes, yes it does

 

[The_LastRomeo]

I can say that I 'love' a song (because it touches my heart). But loving a person is something much more deeper. Appreciation? Yes! Being attracted by the beauty and charisma of an idol. Yes! Love? Nope. Unless I'd date an idol and would fall in love with her (this will most likely not happen in this incarnation).

I know I used the wrong *word, let me just edit it lol
But I do agree

 

[Selfmate]

I know I used the wrong, let me just edit it lol
But I do agree

I don't think you're wrong my friend
we all have different definitions of love and what it means to us
obviously I defined what I meant by it and you have a different standard but that doesn't mean you're wrong

 

[The_LastRomeo]

I don't think you're wrong my friend
we all have different definitions of love and what it means to us
obviously I defined what I meant by it and you have a different standard but that doesn't mean you're wrong

Thank you 😊