do you believe in/have you ever pursued revenge? (1 Viewer)

[kodoku]

I don't really believe in it and I have never pursued it either. I've had those resentful emotions too ofc, but I don't think I'd ever act on them. Maybe I'm a fool or a coward and I can understand people who go after someone who really hurt them or a loved one, but I just think revenge devalues the pain someone put you through and only makes the world a worse place.. but like I said, I can understand as long as it isn't something petty..

 

[Skinnny]

I have never pursued it as there hasn't really been an incident big enough to stimulate that but I do believe in it, it maintains order. And I don't mean revenge for very little things, those can be overlooked obviously.

 

[Foxia]

I think about it sometimes, but I'll never pursue it.. In most of the situations; it won't do any good and I'll be better off minding my own business tbh

 

[Hyunjin]

I don’t believe in hurting someone to get back at them for hurting you. I know that will only make me feel worse in the end :/ The best revenge imo is to move on from whoever hurt you and live a happy life without them

 

[springglust]

i'll be honest. i've done it. but i didn't hurt the person in a physical way. now do i believe it? no. i shouldn't have stooped down to their level. the healthiest thing to do is cope with what they did and move on. yeah it's hard but that's life.

 

[lostinwvnderland]

I never hate someone enough to want revenge. I would never do it because I rather just move on and revenge might not help me feel better in the end.

 

[jasque]

Revenge is boring

Always when I try it, I give up soon because it's too much wasted energy

 

[Mew]

depends. I've done it before when I was younger like 10-13, more in a mental way than physical way which is much more fucked up i suppose, its not really much effort at all because i don't have attachment or actual real feeling more so just because I can really.
but its usually not healthy because I find it enjoyable and becomes not so much about revenge more so it feeds the sadist demon inside me and is fun.
So i don't, feeding the demon will only cause mess for a lot of people... But then its not like i care too much more so im focused on other things, I don't think im that bored to be that petty.

basically if it happens it happens but i pretty much doubt it will, you have to really fuck my life up, and to be honest I'd probably just plan to actually kill you.

 

[Loki]

I believe in revenge because it's real some people go too far just to get into another person for something they did (yikes bad explanation) but anyways, as much as it's fun in fiction (a lot of movies are about revenge) revenge is not a good thing to seek! For real and I live by this code even when it's hard to me because I have a temper but sometimes we should just forgive and forget (or sometimes just block and report, you have no idea how hard is for me not engage in massive discussions but if I can do it anyone can)

 

[Walnutt]

Revenge does nothing but make everyone involved suffer. Revenge doesn't fill whatever hole you have; acceptance and forgiveness does.