hmmm, if it's for the purpose of reclamation, then why not? i mean, i identify as queer, and it once was a slur (and many still consider it as such - and i'm talking about members of the lgbt+ community). i use words like b*tch and c*nt a lot (censoring here because this is a public forum after all) - even for myself. for reclamation purposes.
like, for example. this guy in my grade once apparently asked his friend (who had a gf at the time) "how do you get b*tches?" and my cisallohet male friend (diff person) didn't like it at all, saying "how do you expect a girl to like you if you're gonna use such language for them?" but for me, as a girl, i don't give a shit about him referring to us as "b*tches" - i dislike the usage of the word "getting" here, cause that feels objectifying. that's what it is for me.