Have you ever avoided wearing an outfit or certain makeup bc it will make you look too good? (1 Viewer)

[frocho]

Essentially worrying that if you put on that certain outfit or makeup, you attract alot of attention that you won't want. Like cat calls, people following you or just keep trying to talk to you? I sometimes do that. Certain outfits and colors that I enjoy wearing really put me in spotlight. Everytime I wear them, I will end up getting too much unwanted attention that I end up regretting it. Sometimes I wanna wear those things to make myself happy, but if I step outside of house with them, people will make me feel unsafe and it becomes a negative and exhausting experience.

 

[owo]

i do but it doesnt even work, like if going to just the corner store, work, grocery store, i just look like straight up garbage and still get catcalled/hit on like
these dude are just vile straight up

 

[frocho]

i do but it doesnt even work, like if going to just the corner store, work, grocery store, i just look like straight up garbage and still get catcalled/hit on like
these dude are just vile straight up

Oh, I'm sorry :(

 

[Magician]

if you work with children, you often think twice if you really want to wear your brand new clothes

 

[frocho]

if you work with children, you often think twice if you really want to wear your brand new clothes

That makes sense, but children are so cute from the ages of 3-5. After that I prefer to keep my distance lol.

 

[Magician]

That makes sense, but children are so cute from the ages of 3-5. After that I prefer to keep my distance lol.

true! i currently work with children aged 6-10 and it can be really stressful

but i go back working with younger children this summer

 

[frocho]

true! i currently work with children aged 6-10 and it can be really stressful

but i go back working with younger children this summer

That sounds really fun! I'm currently studying Childcare as one of my classes and next week, we get to go to a preschool and we get to teach them! I'm so excited! <3

 

[Yelena_Belova]

Not really. If anything, the opposite: I avoid wearing clothes that I think will look too casual.

 

[Yelena_Belova]

Not really. If anything, the opposite: I avoid wearing clothes that I think will look too casual.

 

[StirFriedPanda]

Not really. If anything, the opposite: I avoid wearing clothes that I think will look too casual.

This sounds miserable....

 

[Swan42]

I don't wear cleavage for that very reason. That, and my cleavage is currently ugly.

 

[Yelena_Belova]

This sounds miserable....

It’s not really. I love dressing formal just for fun!