Have you ever been in love with 2 people at the same time? (1 Viewer)

[blueberries]

Hmmmm, yeah, it really does seem unfair if you put it like this x) but perhaps it's not if the ppl in the relationship are in love and have no problem with it.

Yup, they probably know better and if they are satisfied like that it's not rly issue.

 

[Darkseid]

In theory it can work. But humans being humans, the potential complications and chance for messiness are high. Inevitably, jealousy might set in. Or feeling of inadequacy if you start feeling your 2 partners make each other happier than you make them. Sometimes one can feel that you're not getting enough attention from one of your romantic partners compared to what the other partner is getting and so on.

Of course, this also might not happen, but to first find 2 or more willing partners, and then expect that such feelings never arise in any one of them, it's highly unlikely.

As for being in love with more than one person at the same time? Definitely. It's happened to me, and I guess most people, but eventually choices have to be made.

 

[honeyfornomoney]

In theory it can work. But humans being humans, the potential complications and chance for messiness are high. Inevitably, jealousy might set in. Or feeling of inadequacy if you start feeling your 2 partners make each other happier than you make them. Sometimes one can feel that you're not getting enough attention from one of your romantic partners compared to what the other partner is getting and so on.

Yuuup, that would be me af

 

[Darkseid]

Yuuup, that would be me af

Finding one person is difficult enough for me

 

[honeyfornomoney]

Finding one person is difficult enough for me

LMFAO same, I've never dated and I keep falling for unavailable girls, polyamory who XDDDDDDD

 

[Abeamus]

In theory it can work. But humans being humans, the potential complications and chance for messiness are high. Inevitably, jealousy might set in. Or feeling of inadequacy if you start feeling your 2 partners make each other happier than you make them. Sometimes one can feel that you're not getting enough attention from one of your romantic partners compared to what the other partner is getting and so on.

Of course, this also might not happen, but to first find 2 or more willing partners, and then expect that such feelings never arise in any one of them, it's highly unlikely.

As for being in love with more than one person at the same time? Definitely. It's happened to me, and I guess most people, but eventually choices have to be made.

I dont think it's necessarily a case of needing them to never arise but on knowing how to deal with them since most of those feelings can be in any relationship but the difference in one that ends over it and stays together is how good you communicate and trust each other and that becomes even more important with polyamorous relationships.

 

[Darkseid]

I dont think it's necessarily a case of needing them to never arise but on knowing how to deal with them since most of those feelings can be in any relationship but the difference in one that ends over it and stays together is how good you communicate and trust each other and that becomes even more important with polyamorous relationships.

It definitely can be worked out, but in most relationships, acknowledging and admitting it is difficult enough. And add 2 or more people to the mix and them bringing their own thoughts into the mix, it can just get a lot more complicated. With the right people it can definitely work, maybe I'm just a pessimist lol. It will be difficult though, considering atleast 3 people have to find common ground.

 

[Abeamus]

It definitely can be worked out, but in most relationships, acknowledging and admitting it is difficult enough. And add 2 or more people to the mix and them bringing their own thoughts into the mix, it can just get a lot more complicated. With the right people it can definitely work, maybe I'm just a pessimist lol. It will be difficult though, considering atleast 3 people have to find common ground.

It definitely could be tricky but it's probably harder finding someone who'd be into that kind of relationship than it is to avoid the communication issues as it takes a certain kind of person to be up for it to begin with that'd potentially cut out a lot of the ones who'd be insecure in that situation like someone insecure about their partner leaving them for someone better would nope out of there.

 

[Yoohyeon]

As long as they are happy:

 

[Darkseid]

It definitely could be tricky but it's probably harder finding someone who'd be into that kind of relationship than it is to avoid the communication issues as it takes a certain kind of person to be up for it to begin with that'd potentially cut out a lot of the ones who'd be insecure in that situation like someone insecure about their partner leaving them for someone better would nope out of there.

Yeah I've seen people willing to have threesomes and stuff but when it comes to open themselves emotionally and agree to a polyamorous relationship, not many are ready to take that step.

 

[NASA]

If Jungkook counts as one of those people then yes

 

[SeulPika]

I'm currently in love with 5 different girls


My wife and our 4 daughters

 

[honeyfornomoney]

I'm currently in love with 5 different girls


My wife and our 4 daughters

 

[Deleted member 74]

Do you believe polyamory exists?
Of course, it always has existed in the world

Have you ever thought that you could be polyamorous?
Hell to the noo

What are your thoughts on it?
For me personally, a romantic kind of love should be for one person, the soulmate I'm destined to meet. Because of my beliefs, I'm always going to wait for only that one right person because that's what I think is right for me to do. And even without this faith, I'm aware my personality alone is one too difficult, to be able to give love to two people. But generally, I think it's okay as long as there's consent and both sides know, and have the sort of personality to do that.

 

[jasque]

Nah