have you ever let go someone you loved? (1 Viewer)

[kodoku]

I have... "forget about me and let's just get you better so you can be happy someday with someone else or maybe even me" I'm unsure if the way I act is actually good and right, but I don't think I'll ever change, it's just who I am.. If I love you, your well-being and happiness are more important to me than mine (which is probably not healthy and I don't really advise this I guess) but yea, if I have to let go of your hand and send you away with a comforting smile, then I will....... even if I resent someone, nothing will change anyway right? If I'm in pain, you don't need to be too..... even when I thought I'd disappear from this world, my last words to everyone would have been a lie saying it's nobody's fault but mine heh

but yea, how about you guys? I'd like to hear your stories :)

 

[DrowningFishy]

I have, and I will still say i have feelings for the idiot even after 10 plus years. But if you love it let it go, if it comes back it's meant to be.

 

[yeji]

I had to do that some month ago. It still hurts because I don’t even want something romantic with that person and just want a friendship and enjoy fun times but the person doesn’t seem intrested. I should stop caring but I am way too soft and would do things for others despite it hurting me.

 

[Mew]

Well yeah my first love, but due to alot of depressing shit I needed him to let go before I ruined his life with my suicidal tendencies and family trauma.

I always felt worried about him after, if he managed to move on and stuff. We managed to meet up again 10 years (although we wrote birthday messages to each other for years, not just short messages, short meaningful ones and nothing else)
We discussed everything and went back to being friends... (with possible benefits LOL)But because so much has changed our feelings aren't like that anymore, but we have a weird 100% trust thing.. But other than that I feel nothing in terms of love just care. I questioned if I was right to let him go but I think I was right.. He had so many experiences and lives an interesting live.. If he stayed with me he probably would be crying everyday or even visiting me in a mental hospital... I remember the first time he caught me brutally cutting my arms.. It was the first time I'd ever seen him cry, panic and the pained look on his face broke my heart we were fucking 16/17 we were dealing with too much in life at that time... I could not do that to him again not with my depression, not with my mums schizophrenia... So I guess I did the right thing.

Even though we talk and see each other now and again... I still don't ever think ill stop being sorry for ending it like I did even if he turned out fine.. And that's such a rare thing to feel for me (not enough for me to extra nice or anything or have a soft approach though lol)

 

[Darkseid]

My first girlfriend.

Actually she was the one who always tried to do this to me, but I'd somehow convince her and we stayed together like that for like 3 years. But things kept worsening and eventually I ended up doing the same thing to her.

Atleast she's happily married now, we wish each other on birthdays and stuff lol.

 

[jasque]

I had to do that some month ago. It still hurts because I don’t even want something romantic with that person and just want a friendship and enjoy fun times but the person doesn’t seem intrested. I should stop caring but I am way too soft and would do things for others despite it hurting me.

At least you have us

 

[Willow]

I had to do that some month ago. It still hurts because I don’t even want something romantic with that person and just want a friendship and enjoy fun times but the person doesn’t seem intrested. I should stop caring but I am way too soft and would do things for others despite it hurting me.

 

[yeji]

At least you have us

that‘s true

 

[Jimimis]

why are all yall lives so dramatic the hell

 

[lexus]

Unfortunately for me there's someone who've I've been hung up on for years. After so long I finally realized that nothing will ever happen between us. Not even a friendship. Since I've realized this I've learned that it's time to let them go and move. I haven't moved on completely yet, but I hope I can someday.