Have you ever wanted to refuse to help someone because they were acting poorly? (1 Viewer)

[Ahsoka]

My sister was moving apartments the day we came back from our trip. She asked my brother (the one that stayed home) for help 2 days before and my brother said he couldn't because he had to study for a big interview. My sister got pissy that he wouldn't help so she told him if he won't help then he should pay her roommates to help instead And then went to our family chat to complain about how inconsiderate my brother was. In the end we agreed that she'd move the day after we came back so we could help. I was asked to help and ngl wanted to say no because she obviously doesn't seem to think we're dong her a favor, more like we're required to help her because family or whatever. She also asked us to arrive at 11-12 AM, so we did but luckily decided to stop at the library because when we got to the library she sent a message that lol jk we need to come at 2 at earliest. She also said that my brother couldn't spend 3 hours of his time helping her (we left for real at 1 and arrived back at home at 8:30). So yeah, totally 3 hours. But I did say yes mostly because it would be a detriment to my mom if I said no, strength wise she isn't as strong or good at assembling things so a lot of the stuff she'd struggle with. It was difficult because no parking anywhere and the whole fact that her new place is on the second floor, and the stairwell is super narrow to carrying dressers and stuff up there was a joy. But it got done.

 

[Nina]

Oh no, suddenly you got bed fever and need to remain in bed

I get it family helping family but it's annoying when youre expected to help and the person is being difficult.


I live with my brother and he says 'yes' to everything fam related but hes never home and the task ends up on me.
Like hosting for fam. I hate parts of my fam and id end up finding out a few days before that we have family staying over at our apartment.
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[thegoddess31]

i think so