Sensitive Hey guys I could really use some help and positive energy (1 Viewer)

[Jewel]

So, my bestie's is having troubles with his health and won't go to the doctor. It has gotten worse and I'm so worried about him and scared for him because he means the literal world to me. I've been crying worried and thinking I'm useless because he's improved my life by making me happy having a companion, but I feel like I haven't done anything to help his. I feel like I'm l just another friend who takes up his time. My mom says she thinks otherwise but he's never told me anything to put me at ease about it. Long story short I'd really appreciate and hopes and wishes for his health to improve and for things to get better for him. He's literally SAVED my life because before I met him, I wasn't really living I was just existing. So please if you could give your hope and wishes for him to get better, I'd be so thankful.

 

[cocomelon]

ive been in a place like u. just give him your best love and care, trust me that’ll be more than enough, it will help him more than anything 🤍 i hope he feels better soon

 

[Day]

I hope he gets better, he really needs to reach out for help.

 

[Nezumi]

I mean I can’t really say anything about this since I’m not going to a doctor either even though I feel like something is wrong.
But if it really gets worse, just drag him to a doctor before it’s too late. Time is precious.
And I’m sure he doesn’t think that way about you taking up his time.
We always assume the worst. Have you tried talking to him about this? Communication is key, even though it’s hard.

 

[Jewel]

Thank you everyone for replying and caring

 

[NBW]

hope he gets better soon and good luck to u as well. just noticing on how u describe it, u are not just another friend. u care for him and that is more than a lot of people do, honestly. as for the doc part, sometimes people are that way, especially guys, but just tell him a visit to the hospital is needed at times. doesnt hurt to go. thats why they exist afterall
hope all goes well, like i said before, for u and him <3

 

[Abeamus]

Is there a particular reason he's not going to the doctors? I've been in this position before with my father who got an infection and didn't want to go to the hospital for it.

In the end he got a slight case of jaundice and ended up losing one of his legs in order to prevent the infection from outright killing him.

It doesn't hurt to go to the doctors as in the end they need yours or a guardians consent to be able to treat you so I'd try to talk him through whatever might be stopping him since he might not realise the severity of the issue.

Since I would assume he's been having symptoms for at least a week based on your post and in terms of illnesses a week of symptoms is generally considered too long.

Hopefully he recovers though

 

[Jewel]

hope he gets better soon and good luck to u as well. just noticing on how u describe it, u are not just another friend. u care for him and that is more than a lot of people do, honestly. as for the doc part, sometimes people are that way, especially guys, but just tell him a visit to the hospital is needed at times. doesnt hurt to go. thats why they exist afterall
hope all goes well, like i said before, for u and him <3

Tysm for you're kind words.


And everyone else whose commented similar to this.

 

[Jewel]

Is there a particular reason he's not going to the doctors? I've been in this position before with my father who got an infection and didn't want to go to the hospital for it.

In the end he got a slight case of jaundice and ended up losing one of his legs in order to prevent the infection from outright killing him.

It doesn't hurt to go to the doctors as in the end they need yours or a guardians consent to be able to treat you so I'd try to talk him through whatever might be stopping him since he might not realise the severity of the issue.

Since I would assume he's been having symptoms for at least a week based on your post and in terms of illnesses a week of symptoms is generally considered too long.

Hopefully he recovers though

Tbh, I think it's because he's gone before, and they didn't help him. I suppose he's worried that his time will be wasted and no good will come from it.

 

[Abeamus]

Tbh, I think it's because he's gone before, and they didn't help him. I suppose he's worried that his time will be wasted and no good will come from it.

Well that's an understandable reason since some doctors are useless but on the other side of the coin you also get doctors who schedule you for every test under the sun until they find out what's wrong so if you know something is wrong and the current doctor doesn't help you then just ask to see another doctor

 

[Jewel]

I think he's feeling a bit better. He's told me he is. I'm still worried about him though.

 

[Nezumi]

Tbh, I think it's because he's gone before, and they didn't help him. I suppose he's worried that his time will be wasted and no good will come from it.

This is EXACTLY my reason