hmm..... about beauty..... (1 Viewer)

[kodoku]

I'm thinking.... why do people, especially us females it seems, think they need to be "perfect" in order to be beautiful? well I know why lol, no need to answer...... society, the media, some people, just everything wrong with the world and so on....... but yea beautiful = full of beauty.... you can be very much imperfect and still have a lot of beauty in you and therefore be beautiful...... so let's not be so hard on ourselves and others, let's not judge and punish each other so much.. everyone has good qualities, could be being having a big heart for kids or maybe having a sincere smile for everyone... anything really..... idk just bored and thinking lol sorry..

 

[inverity]

As a woman I am often very glad I came out looking "decent", because I know how hard it is for women are are not considered attractive. But it's even worse because for girls who are considered attractive that becomes the only thing that matters. All in all, women have it rough. If you're not pretty and average looking you wish you could look better. If you're above average looking you have to deal with prejudice. If you're below average looking you also have to deal with it.
For me in order to deal with this I just stopped wearing makeup except for formal occasions. It's helped me focus on improving other aspects and not give a shit about my facial imperfections.
I don't think you need to be beautiful at all. I think women should just be allowed to exist. I think the alternate concept of everyone being beautiful also works, since it is a bit less intense.

 

[yeji]

I personally think everyone is beautiful no matter what. It does suck that sociaty puts a pressure on everyone to feel or be a certain way.

 

[natura]

Exactly. Ultimate beauty (1st and foremost) comes from within = by just being you, an individual. Just the fact that we're all different (for a reason) is beautiful in and of itself.
Forget what society says because it's not real, not the truth.

 

[ripiasuju]

I dont really know what you said but i see kodoku and see beauty and definitely agree