Sensitive How do I approach my friend about this (1 Viewer)

[kisshuhua09baby]

TW: Just talking ab sexual stuff not graphic but some may not want to view this thread due to that


I have a friend named W and we usually talk during homeroom, on the bus, or just in school in general as I skip classes here and there.
One of the things we have in common is our more raunchy humor.
But at times he goes a bit too far. One time I was on the bus drinking one of those Capri Sun Juice pack things but I was drinking it kind of aggressively bc idk i just do that? W saw that and he was like "Damn is that how you suck dick Kriss"
I was a bit caught off guard by this and granted he jokes similarly to this a lot but this one made me a little uncomfortable. I didn't want to ruin the mood of the room though so I just brushed off the joke and continued conversing with W like normal. There have also been other incidents and I wanna try and bring it up to W on Monday or Tuesday because he's not doing this on purpose but I don't know how to bring it up to him

 

[Tickita]

One thing to remember is that it does make you uncomfortable. It doesn't matter that he isn't doing it on purpose.

You can pull him aside and have a one-on-one convo. Tell him his comments make you uncomfortable, and he needs to stop making them. Be specific about which comments you're talking about.

 

[Selfmate]

I slightly differ to tickita above jus slightly

yes you've made such jokes before but there's always a line and it's up to you to communicate where that line is with your friend
because obvious not all "raunchy humour" makes you uncomfortable just that particular one... so the issue is you have to explain to you friend why that particular line was over the top or crossed some previously unset boundary

then you might also self-reflect and ask have you ever said anything of that nature to them?