How do I ask my friend to stop trying to bite my arm? (1 Viewer)

[kisshuhua09baby]

So this is about my friend J again (the one I mentioned in that other thread)
She keeps asking me "Kriss can I bite your arm" and also sometimes just grabbing my arm out of nowhere in the hall or in class to the point where when I pass by her in the school hallway I flinch or back away. I asked her many times to stop doing this and have outright said "J, please stop trying to bite my arm" and multiple variations of "No" but to no avail. One time I had said no and she said "But Kalis (our other friend) was fine with it" OKAY? and I'm not Kalis. I don't like her acting this way but Idk if I'm just being dramatic

 

[Selfmate]

ask nicely
then if she doesn't stop report her to the authorities aka teachers if it's school related, boss if it's work related and ultimate police since biting people is a crime!!!

 

[MK3AM]

I would sit down with her and have a talk and tell her you're serious and want to set boundaries if she still doesn't respect them then its best if you no longer be friends with her bc u should have someone who cares Abt your boundaries

 

[magali]

if your friend keeps hurting me and refuses to stop i would personally cut her off, but that's not the best if you want to maintain a friendship i just think she's being horrible towards you

 

[athenaaa]

Bite them back and see how they like it jk jk don’t do that

 

[MK3AM]

I can try but she'll probably start doing more weird shit next week

I would say give it a try but if she still doesnt respect your boundaries then dont be friends with her and if the worst case comes you can see if your school offers a school restraining order

 

[kisshuhua09baby]

Bite them back and see how they like it jk jk don’t do that

Oh you're too funny liliya :>
I spoke to her about it today but she just said "i'm a weirdo i'm weird what did you expect" & that already pissed me off bc that's so ignorant but then I found out that she reads noncon (it's a type of fanfic genre. noncon is essentially a flowery way of saying rape kink) because I peeped over at her laptop in class and saw she was reading and she told me it was. worse: she said it "makes the stories 'spicier' and more interesting" and that was my cue to unofficially end that friendship

 

[MK3AM]

Oh you're too funny liliya :>
I spoke to her about it today but she just said "i'm a weirdo i'm weird what did you expect" & that already pissed me off bc that's so ignorant but then I found out that she reads noncon (it's a type of fanfic genre. noncon is essentially a flowery way of saying rape kink) because I peeped over at her laptop in class and saw she was reading and she told me it was. worse: she said it "makes the stories 'spicier' and more interesting" and that was my cue to unofficially end that friendship

non con is a red flag.. but I do wish u have a drama free life after this <3

 

[kisshuhua09baby]

non con is a red flag.. but I do wish u have a drama free life after this <3

Yeah hope so too Kami. Also what do I call you? You have STTAN SKZ AND BP in your pronoun section and I didn't know what to call you luv :(

 

[MK3AM]

Yeah hope so too Kami. Also what do I call you? You have STTAN SKZ AND BP in your pronoun section and I didn't know what to call you luv :(

I prefer She/her but any pronoun is fine ty 4 asking <3 :))

 

[athenaaa]

Oh you're too funny liliya :>
I spoke to her about it today but she just said "i'm a weirdo i'm weird what did you expect" & that already pissed me off bc that's so ignorant but then I found out that she reads noncon (it's a type of fanfic genre. noncon is essentially a flowery way of saying rape kink) because I peeped over at her laptop in class and saw she was reading and she told me it was. worse: she said it "makes the stories 'spicier' and more interesting" and that was my cue to unofficially end that friendship

Thats so weird, HELP 😭😭😭🤣

 

[Deleted member 74]

you're not being dramatic trust your boundaries and expect her to respect them otherwise you shouldn't be friends with someone like that, she has no right to touch you if you don't want her to let alone bite you
honestly, I would distance myself from her and end the friendship if I were you x.x