How do I get rid of feelings for someone? (1 Viewer)

[frocho]

How do I get rid of the feelings I have towards someone, any advice?

 

[stvrnova]

The most i can recommend is to stop all contact with the person, cut the person off from seeing or talking to you

 

[Horizonshard]

It's hard, but you have to change your perspective for that person.

That usually means an extended time of no contact, or not being around them.

And then you have to consciously try to think differently about them.

Even that being said, you may never fully get rid of those feelings. Just shift them to a different type of feeling.

 

[chiefchilly1]

Destroyyyy them

 

[athenaaa]

Block them out of your life

 

[Willow]

Block them out of your life

Best advice

 

[Melon]

I wish I knew. I still love some idiot from two years ago. It’s that accent man. Love me a NZ and Aussie accent haha

 

[Myco]

just be sad for a couple of days knowing you'll never be together until you start to forget about the crush - at least that's what I usually do

 

[Sanumi]

Focus on other things that fulfill you and keep you busy. You won't lose feelings for them right away. It will take some time, and you're allowed to feel sad or disappointed about it. You'll probably still think of them a lot... but eventually the feelings will fade away. I think it's best if you cut off any contact with them and learn to accept the situation for what it is (hard, I know). Remember, you are still very young and have so much time to meet new people throughout your life.