How do i make myself less boring for my gf (1 Viewer)

[kisshuhua09baby]

It's not like I fear we'll break up or anything but I do think my gf might be getting a little bored of me. Should I start dressing nicer or maybe try being more of a listener instead of a talker in conversations? Not necessarily bad vibes, but the vibes definitely feel different since school started back up. Again don't get me wrong, she still loves me. But I just feel like im doing something wrong yknow.

 

[The_LastRomeo]

So you feel that way? How about you ask her honestly if you are boring, tho I'm pretty sure she likes you just the way you are

 

[kisshuhua09baby]

So you feel that way? How about you ask her honestly if you are boring, tho I'm pretty sure she likes you just the way you are

I feel like if i ask i'll get the answer thats nice to not hurt my feelings but not exactly honest. I believe that if you ask anyone if they think negatively of you that they beat around the bush as much as they can

 

[The_LastRomeo]

I feel like if i ask i'll get the answer thats nice to not hurt my feelings but not exactly honest. I believe that if you ask anyone if they think negatively of you that they beat around the bush as much as they can

Then maybe try the listener approach

 

[Abeamus]

Well ultimately it's not your job to read her mind and predict how she's feeling and if she does think things are a little dull then it's up to her to tell you that and also there could be lots of reasons why the vibes might be different with you both being in school with one of them being stress on her so if you're worried about things then just ask her if she's doing okay and depending on exactly what means you have available then you could try and do something fun together that's something either you know she'd enjoy or something you can experience together and don't rule out you worrying in changing your vibe to her either.