How Happy Are you? (1 Viewer)

[Angelyna_Frost]

Im quite ok honestly

What i didnt achieve i have the knowledge how to get there

And there is always time for you to get there.

 

[Ahsoka]

Probably around a 4 most of the time. I tend to be very upset about how I let my mental health problems control my life so much, and its already caused so many problems with my schooling which also frustrates me. I don't think I've achieved as much as I could have and I really wish I could go back and redo most of my life. The one thing right now that I can think of that I'm proud of is that ive been seeking help for it which I never expected to be able to do. I do have some hope that things in the future can improve though, so that's another good side.

 

[Angelyna_Frost]

Probably around a 4 most of the time. I tend to be very upset about how I let my mental health problems control my life so much, and its already caused so many problems with my schooling which also frustrates me. I don't think I've achieved as much as I could have and I really wish I could go back and redo most of my life. The one thing right now that I can think of that I'm proud of is that ive been seeking help for it which I never expected to be able to do. I do have some hope that things in the future can improve though, so that's another good side.

Thank you for being brave enough to share this Vikki- maybe other people who struggle also will find some comfort in this. I hope you feel more at peace and stronger as the year goes on. There is always hope for improvement and positive changes.

 

[jasque]

And there is always time for you to get there.

Yes if god gives us the time xD

If not it wont matter anyway

 

[VillageIdiot]

6-7
Not particularly happy, not particularly upset (most of the time), definitely not satisfied. Just here, I guess.
I just wish that my dedication was on the same level as my ambition.
I could be at an actual University instead of community college if I had taken myself more seriously and been willing to put in the work to get to where I wanted

 

[baekk]

7.5/10
When I get out of school maybe a 9/10

 

[Carlshutup]

I can't count how many times I thought I'll do this stuffs and I'll be happy, at least I don't have student debts

 

[Angelyna_Frost]

6-7
Not particularly happy, not particularly upset (most of the time), definitely not satisfied. Just here, I guess.
I just wish that my dedication was on the same level as my ambition.
I could be at an actual University instead of community college if I had taken myself more seriously and been willing to put in the work to get to where I wanted

I don't know if this is helpful at all but a lot of my friends started at a 2-year and transferred. Kinda doesn't matter where you start, it's where you finish or end up.

 

[Suzy]

Honestly, I’m a bit behind when it comes to accomplishments but I don’t have any regrets. Right now, I’m doing everything I love so I’m pretty content with how it’s going. I’d say I’m pretty stressed out but I’m still happy-stressed not sad-stressed (if that makes sense?). I just don’t see anything to be sad about and even if something isn’t going well, I make sure to find something positive about the situation and not dwell on the negatives. I’m more of an optimistic person than pessimistic one (which is funny because a lot of people around me are the opposite).
So I’m generally just happy. Not the happiest person in the world but happy. So I’d say overall about a 8-9.

 

[jasque]

I can't count how many times I thought I'll do this stuffs and I'll be happy, at least I don't have student debts

I have my brother's debt on my name, rip

 

[Jennie]

I'm okay. My happiness level is probs 5-7 could be better tbh. I'm just trying to just live for my parents and all. All the things I've wanted to achieved, all of the things I've wanted to achieve for my parents .....all of that hunger for accomplishing all of that.. are basically gone tbh. Honestly I feel like I'm losing it. I feel like losing my head lol. Hopefully I figure things out quickly. I should've put myself first rather than living up to their expectations.I'm pretty sure my happiness level will increase when I put my mental health first.

 

[Crackhead]

How would you rate your happiness or contentment with your life at this stage?
3 or 4, when I have better days it's a 6 or 7(?not sure lol) with everything going on I just wanna curl up in a ball and disappear.

Do you feel you are where you want to be or where you expected to be at this age?
No, I expected more happiness and better stuff but rip. I also expected to be stable, whatever it would be. Money wise or something else.

What accomplishments are you most proud of?
To still be able to go on when I feel like dropping it all.
To still have some hope left.
For being able to finish my school.

What would you like to improve on?
My mentality state, looks.
To find a job.
I wish I can concentrate better and to be able to remember stuff better.

 

[Moonbinlove]

I’m about 8/10 happiness most of the time
But these last couple of days 3/4 because of a bad stomach bug

 

[Eden]

Ehhh.........

Y'all saw my thread about being so much in love, but as long as we aren't together, it kinda hurts as well... I'm just happy knowing such beautiful people actually exist in this world, especially when they like me ^^ wether it's romantic or platonic, SHE likes ME can you believe it??
I LOVE my job, it gives me hope, money, distraction, people to talk to irl and most importantly: validation. I'm officially not useless!
My ex best friend and I became friends again and Idk if that'll last but... I'm just glad we made peace and cleared up some shit

But ya know... As long as I live in this abusive household... I can't be happy, it's just too much and it's only getting worse now my brother is turning into my dad 2.0 it's emotional torture... My mom is kinda sane still but has her moments when she loses it as well... Starts blaming me for shit I didn't do (and couldn't even do, most of the time) contradicting behaviour, I know where it comes from but... It's up to me now to stay true to myself and not stoop to their level, I almost did at some point, glad I noticed in time (Posting so much on forums actually helped me here, seeing some stuff I said in the past is just... Not me, not natural, I changed but that means I can change back)

I can't exactly rate my happiness cause at times I'm constantly smiling, at other times I wanna jump in front of the first vehicle I see... Just trying to hold onto the good things, they can't outweigh the bad but give me some hope

 

[JoanaIsHere]

I’d rate my life a 4 out of 10. I’m not liking the people & teachers at my school. I’m getting stressed out but can’t really do anything about it

I cant remember any accomplishments lol.

Id like to improve my grades & how lazy I am

 

[Soogi]

i have my up's and down's. the weathers been getting better so even tho theres so much going on right now, at least i dont have to deal with seasonal depression anymore. i feel like i can breathe a little again heh~

 

[jasque]

Ehhh.........

Y'all saw my thread about being so much in love, but as long as we aren't together, it kinda hurts as well... I'm just happy knowing such beautiful people actually exist in this world, especially when they like me ^^ wether it's romantic or platonic, SHE likes ME can you believe it??
I LOVE my job, it gives me hope, money, distraction, people to talk to irl and most importantly: validation. I'm officially not useless!
My ex best friend and I became friends again and Idk if that'll last but... I'm just glad we made peace and cleared up some shit

But ya know... As long as I live in this abusive household... I can't be happy, it's just too much and it's only getting worse now my brother is turning into my dad 2.0 it's emotional torture... My mom is kinda sane still but has her moments when she loses it as well... Starts blaming me for shit I didn't do (and couldn't even do, most of the time) contradicting behaviour, I know where it comes from but... It's up to me now to stay true to myself and not stoop to their level, I almost did at some point, glad I noticed in time (Posting so much on forums actually helped me here, seeing some stuff I said in the past is just... Not me, not natural, I changed but that means I can change back)

I can't exactly rate my happiness cause at times I'm constantly smiling, at other times I wanna jump in front of the first vehicle I see... Just trying to hold onto the good things, they can't outweigh the bad but give me some hope

I know the feel
Before someone accepted me i thought there was something very wrong with me

I mean, thats what happens after being dumped countless times in years lol