How important is your happiness to you? (1 Viewer)

[honeyfornomoney]

I guess not much if I let a toxic woman manipulate me, guilt trip me and still missing her after she left :))
But idk if i would bring myself to leave a job that doesn't make me happy, knowing me I'd probably stay

 

[ChiaraStar169]

very good question...

 

[ChiaraStar169]

very good question...

actually no, I do have an answer.

Happiness is very important to me. I don't work, but if I'm not happy somewhere because, say, it's a toxic environment, I'll definitely stop going and find a happier place. Case in point: me moving from KPF to here. I won't go into details at the risk of getting a WP, but... I mean, it wasn't toxic, but I just wasn't happy there anymore, so I came here!

 

[doll]

happy or unhappy im gonna die so it doesnt matter

 

[ChiaraStar169]

actually no, I do have an answer.

Happiness is very important to me. I don't work, but if I'm not happy somewhere because, say, it's a toxic environment, I'll definitely stop going and find a happier place. Case in point: me moving from KPF to here. I won't go into details at the risk of getting a WP, but... I mean, it wasn't toxic, but I just wasn't happy there anymore, so I came here!

Oh, and another example is the home for the blind I used to live at. They started hounding me for every single slipup I made - unclean room, absence at meals, etc. I finally did put my foot down when I was sexually assaulted in 2019, and let me tell you - my mentality there and at this apartment were like night and day! I became happier, I stopped my soda addiction, I started managing my money better, etc. I was just a happier person overall.

 

[dark_tranquility]

I am happy when others are around me.
My self happiness doesn't matter much.
Since I am always alone.

 

[scaramouche]

i think my happiness is super important to me but bc i have been worried about other peoples happiness i never have time to focus on my own, which leaves me in a worse shape than before. i also never have any time for my happiness anymore, i have grown up always worried about someone being unhappy/angry and i hate it so much but when i try to finally focus on myself im just a bitch who doesn't care for anyone, even after 16 years of sacrificing my happiness. hopefully when i move out and start over somewhere else this can all change but for now all i can do is work a little at a time <333

 

[SnowWhite]

I did stop going to school last year of high school and only attended at the final exams but that didn't make me happy. Not only I was falling behind other kids but also barely socialized and lost my best friend at the time. (Although we got back years later)
I thought it was more because I was a coward than brave. I should have worked hard and caught up with everything instead. That's what I am doing now because i am unhappy with my college major and am studying to change to medicine. Happiness is sure important to most people and I think I will receive it through education.