How mean or nice are you to yourself? (1 Viewer)

[lexus]

How well do you treat yourself?

On most days I'm usually not really mean to myself, but I don't think too highly of myself either. However, I do end up having episodes (usually when I'm just angry with myself) and say the worst stuff about myself. I'd say things like "I'm worthless", "I'm a piece of shit", and worst of all I'd say that I deserve to die (it's not that I want to though). Like I can be completely ruthless to myself, but I know I'd never say any of that stuff to another person. I don't exactly know how to stop this way of thinking but hopefully one day I can stop it.

Please be kind to yourselves everyone. You're doing your best 💙

 

[Day]

I empathize with you Lexus and I also wish that everyone, including myself, could learn to be kinder to ourselves. I have a really hard time trying to be nice to myself and most of the time I'm very cruel to myself. I wish life wasn't like this.

 

[Jewel]

I'm really harsh on myself and look down on myself. I constantly think I'm not good enough or worthy of being my best friend's companion. I also see myself lowly and feel like I haven't amounted to anything.

 

[Willow]

Really badly

 

[tai]

I don't think I'm mean to myself, but I wouldn't say I'm nice either.

 

[SnowWhite]

Tbh I only am nice to myself when I achieve something or look pretty and well-dressed which shouldn't be that way.

 

[athenaaa]

I struggle to be nice to myself. If anything good happens to me I believe that I don’t deserve it. I am very critical of myself and my accomplishments. I believe I can do better because I compare myself to others, not in like a goal setting kind of way but a “hey loser you suck” kinda way. I also struggle to give myself compliments or believe that I’m worthy of love. I believe that everyone should abandon me for their own good because I’m a ticking time bomb just waiting to die

 

[Michael]

Not that much mean; but mean.

 

[Nezumi]

I think I’m kind of mean to my self. Or more like negative. It’s very rare for me to be positive about my self. I just always put the expectations way too high for my self.
I just hope we can all learn to love our selves a bit more over time ❤

 

[lexus]

I empathize with you Lexus and I also wish that everyone, including myself, could learn to be kinder to ourselves. I have a really hard time trying to be nice to myself and most of the time I'm very cruel to myself. I wish life wasn't like this.

I'm really harsh on myself and look down on myself. I constantly think I'm not good enough or worthy of being my best friend's companion. I also see myself lowly and feel like I haven't amounted to anything.

Really badly

I don't think I'm mean to myself, but I wouldn't say I'm nice either.

Tbh I only am nice to myself when I achieve something or look pretty and well-dressed which shouldn't be that way.

I struggle to be nice to myself. If anything good happens to me I believe that I don’t deserve it. I am very critical of myself and my accomplishments. I believe I can do better because I compare myself to others, not in like a goal setting kind of way but a “hey loser you suck” kinda way. I also struggle to give myself compliments or believe that I’m worthy of love. I believe that everyone should abandon me for their own good because I’m a ticking time bomb just waiting to die

Not that much mean; but mean.

I think I’m kind of mean to my self. Or more like negative. It’s very rare for me to be positive about my self. I just always put the expectations way too high for my self.
I just hope we can all learn to love our selves a bit more over time ❤

Sending a virtual hug to all of you

 

[Jewel]

Sending a virtual hug to all of you

Tysm you too!

 

[Nezumi]

Sending a virtual hug to all of you

 

[athenaaa]

Sending a virtual hug to all of you

Thank you Lex, really needed this. Here's a hug back

 

[Willow]

Sending a virtual hug to all of you

Thx 🙏

 

[Tickita]

Nicer now than I've ever been, in a "it is what it is" type of way

 

[Day]