How to meet new people? HELP (1 Viewer)

[athenaaa]

So I’m going into my second year of my second college program. I made friends last year and they all dropped out except one, and I just found out she is now going “off stream” so now we won’t have classes together. So this means I have to make all new friends in year two when people already have established friend groups. How do I make friends especially considering that I’m very socially awkward

 

[PloryWinxyMYBlnk]

Think back to how you made friends originally. Going with that same plan again should not fail you since it worked the first time.

 

[athenaaa]

Think back to how you made friends originally. Going with that same plan again should not fail you since it worked the first time.

I went to an activity day, the extrovert adopted me and I became friends with people she talked to

 

[Nezumi]

Honestly, I can't help you with that cuz I'm socially awkward as well Everyone single friend that I made, they just came to me.. Idk why. I'm a fun person I guess

 

[athenaaa]

Honestly, I can't help you with that cuz I'm socially awkward as well Everyone single friend that I made, they just came to me.. Idk why. I'm a fun person I guess

Same here, I’m terrible at intiating contact first 😭😭😭

 

[Nezumi]

Usually when you have something in common, it'll make starting a friendship easier

 

[PloryWinxyMYBlnk]

I went to an activity day, the extrovert adopted me and I became friends with people she talked to

Nice! See? You were worried for nothing. You'll be fine.

 

[athenaaa]

Nice! See? You were worried for nothing. You'll be fine.

I’m just hoping another extrovert adopts me

 

[kiki]

Just find people you vibe w and go start a convo

 

[PloryWinxyMYBlnk]

I’m just hoping another extrovert adopts me

Question: Do others approach you first the majority of the time?

But, if you approach them even a small amount, that's still good. As you already know, finding commonalities with others as a starting point will break the ice.

 

[athenaaa]

Question: Do others approach you first the majority of the time?

But, if you approach them even a small amount, that's still good. As you already know, finding commonalities with others as a starting point will break the ice.

People usually approach me. I don’t have to confidence to talk to anyone