how to stop being a bad person (2 Viewers)

[doll]

the title is a question btw

guys i really dont want to be a bad person anymore i want to be able to care about other peoples feelings but i honestly just cant, unless i really really really love you i dont really care. i dont even care about my moms emotions at this point and i dont know how to fix it, i just stopped one day
and its so hard to pretend i care because when people vent to me i cant relate to them because i just dont care, i dont know how to comfort people
someone help

 

[Selfmate]

interesting
Two psychological terms particularly associated with a lack of empathy are sociopathy and psychopathy.

 

[doll]

interesting
Two psychological terms particularly associated with a lack of empathy are sociopathy and psychopathy.

but im not a sociopath or psychopath ?
i dont feel like i am

 

[Selfmate]

but im not a sociopath or psychopath ?
i dont feel like i am

I'm joking my friend
the question is though - why do you feel that way
can you put yourself in someone else's shoes? or is it hard to feel empathy because those other people brought such things upon thsemselves?
maybe it's the endless grind that caused you to be more "miserable?"
like in the beginning you were all caring and rainbows and sunshines but so much shit happens that eventually you just gave up?

 

[doll]

I'm joking my friend
the question is though - why do you feel that way
can you put yourself in someone else's shoes? or is it hard to feel empathy because those other people brought such things upon thsemselves?
maybe it's the endless grind that caused you to be more "miserable?"
like in the beginning you were all caring and rainbows and sunshines but so much shit happens that eventually you just gave up?

hmm ive never really been able to care, i never understood why people felt bad for people in war and homeless people and stuff
and i know thats bad and i shouldnt think like that but idk how to stop

 

[Selfmate]

hmm ive never really been able to care, i never understood why people felt bad for people in war and homeless people and stuff
and i know thats bad and i shouldnt think like that but idk how to stop

wow...that's interesting
what about friends then or at least people who are close to you or hell even your fav idols? do you feel something when something bad happens to them?
I see you have hyewon up there in your badges
during the pd48 scandal and everything she was one of the people who was alledged to be rigged in and if memory serves she (more so her agency) got a fair amount of backlash as a result - did you feel anything as a result?

 

[seungfloral]

hmm ive never really been able to care, i never understood why people felt bad for people in war and homeless people and stuff
and i know thats bad and i shouldnt think like that but idk how to stop

Honestly idk if u're trolling or not

 

[doll]

Honestly idk if u're trolling or not

im being serious dude i wish i was trolling 💀

 

[doll]

wow...that's interesting
what about friends then or at least people who are close to you or hell even your fav idols? do you feel something when something bad happens to them?
I see you have hyewon up there in your badges
during the pd48 scandal and everything she was one of the people who was alledged to be rigged in and if memory serves she (more so her agency) got a fair amount of backlash as a result - did you feel anything as a result?

no bro i just dont care about anything
idec about my own feelings fr
i feel like life is fake yk ?

 

[Selfmate]

no bro i just dont care about anything
idec about my own feelings fr
i feel like life is fake yk ?

interesting well in that case that's beyond the pay grade of a random person on a kpop forum lol
you should (if you can) seek professional help to understand the causes of it and try to figure out why it is so (if you want to)
there's nothing inherently that prevents one from going through life without empathy it's just a damn lot harder lol

 

[doll]

interesting well in that case that's beyond the pay grade of a random person on a kpop forum lol
you should (if you can) seek professional help to understand the causes of it and try to figure out why it is so (if you want to)
there's nothing inherently that prevents one from going through life without empathy it's just a damn lot harder lol

i am clinically diagnosed with a mental illness but idk
its fine guys ill just pretend to be a princess

 

[Selfmate]

i am clinically diagnosed with a mental illness but idk
its fine guys ill just pretend to be a princess

well is that related or not to your perceived lack of empathy?
could it be something unrelated that you might need additional assistance for?

lol - the opposite of a lack of empathy isn't being a princess btw and it's not about pretending since that would make you a psychopath lol

 

[doll]

well is that related or not to your perceived lack of empathy?
could it be something unrelated that you might need additional assistance for?

lol - the opposite of a lack of empathy isn't being a princess btw and it's not about pretending since that would make you a psychopath lol

oh idk i never really cared abt it fr i pretend its not real and they lied to me

being a princess would solve all my problems because i'd be rich

 

[seungfloral]

well is that related or not to your perceived lack of empathy?
could it be something unrelated that you might need additional assistance for?

lol - the opposite of a lack of empathy isn't being a princess btw and it's not about pretending since that would make you a psychopath lol

Honestly i think they might have depression then

 

[doll]

Honestly i think they might have depression then

im not depressed though im not sad

 

[Selfmate]

oh idk i never really cared abt it fr i pretend its not real and they lied to me

being a princess would solve all my problems because i'd be rich

the lack of empathy or the clinical diagnoses?

winning lotto would solve a lot problems for a lot of people - doesn't mean it's going to happen lol

Honestly i think they might have depression then

not sure beyond my pay grade lol

 

[doll]

the lack of empathy or the clinical diagnoses?

winning lotto would solve a lot problems for a lot of people - doesn't mean it's going to happen lol

uhm idk guys ty for ur help tho

 

[seungfloral]

im not depressed though im not sad

Oh i see, well im depressed and dont care about shit either. But also not to ur extenct. You should talk to professionals about this problem

 

[doll]

Oh i see, well im depressed and dont care about shit either. But also not to ur extenct. You should talk to professionals about this problem

possibly

 

[Selfmate]

uhm idk guys ty for ur help tho

no probs not that I did much anyway but like i and others have said seek professional help if you can and make the best of your situation my friend and good luck with everything