How would you feel? (1 Viewer)

[bulletproof]

Ok so a few weeks ago I randomly met a guy. He told me that he would like to know me better and stuff which was ok from my side, even if I wasn't that interested. But nothing wrong to talk to someone I guess. Anyway we talked on social media a few times and he told me that he likes me likes 3 times and I am like bruh we talked like 5 times maximum and anyway, I understood first time, you don't have to say it every time It feels so pushy it makes me wanna run and avoid any other conversation Would you feel the same way?

 

[Villains]

yes i would feel the same way, I would be uncomfy

 

[bulletproof]

yes i would feel the same way, I would be uncomfy

for real, he's not a bad guy, but I really feel uncomfy

 

[Willow]

I can’t relate to you as nothing like that happened to me but I can imagine how uncomfortable it can be

 

[tai]

Just erase him and his bloodline... problem solved :wonugl:

 

[bulletproof]

Just erase him and his bloodline... problem solved :wonugl:

not that extreme, but I hope he understands the message without making it awkward

 

[innies]

uncomfy

 

[Ahsoka]

That is very uncomfortable yeah

 

[Tickita]

I'd feel annoyed and would just block him. If we only talked 5 times, I'll assume he's lying about liking me. Surely you can't know that much about me if we talked 5 times. I'd think that he just wants to be with someone, instead of actually wanting to be with me.

 

[Mew]

It's more irritating than uncomfortable for me. I would dig in and ask how and why considering they don't know much about me generally...
I would dig until they feel weird about it as it wouldnt make logical sense in why they like me... Beyond that of what I look like.
Then Id just say I can't do anything about that, that's their hang up not mine. You either want a friendship or let's not talk again...
But I'm straight forward and a little mean... So...

Simple version which ive used is ''i'm aware you like me you don't have to repeat it, whether I like you as a person is still pending but theres no romantic feelings on my side"

Reading it back... I am quiet cold...

 

[bulletproof]

It's more irritating than uncomfortable for me. I would dig in and ask how and why considering they don't know much about me generally...
I would dig until they feel weird about it as it wouldnt make logical sense in why they like me... Beyond that of what I look like.
Then Id just say I can't do anything about that, that theres hang up not mine. You either want a friendship or let's not talk again...
But I'm straight forward and a little mean... So...

Simple version which ive used is ''i'm aware you like me you don't have to repeat it, whether I like you as a person is still pending but theres romantic feelings on my side"

Reading it back... I am quiet cold...

ngl this is actually really good advice

 

[lexus]

I'd be uncomfortable too. That'd make me not want to talk to him again tbh 👀

 

[Abeamus]

Sounds more like they're just infatuated if they're acting that fast but either way if they like you they should respect you which means understanding when to back off and they clearly don't understand so it's understandable to feel uncomfortable but I'm pretty confrontational so I'd just tell them how it is