I hate it when (1 Viewer)

[stvrnova]

I tend to say I'm, close w people, bc I am, but sometimes some people start being mean to me for no reason. I hate it bc it makes me lose trust within the person. Sometimes I tend to wonder "what did I do wrong? in order for them to act this way towards me." When I confront them about it they call me sensitive and ignore me. I'm just confused on what to do :/

 

[doll]

who started being rude to you???

 

[athenaaa]

It hurts more to hold onto people who don’t share that want to grow together in friendship.

 

[stvrnova]

who started being rude to you???

people from discord servers :/ i just wanted to be nice towards them

 

[doll]

people from discord servers :/ i just wanted to be nice towards them

let them stay jealous cuz they cant be as cool as u

 

[stvrnova]

It hurts more to hold onto people who don’t share that want to grow together in friendship.

you're right but i just want to make more friends yk? i try but then get made fun of it for trying

 

[stvrnova]

let them stay jealous cuz they cant be as cool as u

awwe thank you Vee <33

 

[doll]

awwe thank you Vee <33

u can call me vera on here <33

 

[stvrnova]

u can call me vera on here <33

You sure? :D

 

[Deleted member 74]

if someone can't communicate their potential issues with you and instead choose to put you down or make you feel terrible without even knowing why they are treating you that way, they are absolutely not worth it and you deserve better~ calling you sensitive when confronting them about it says more about them than it does you so I hope you won't worry too much and the right people will come along for you to become good friends with

 

[athenaaa]

you're right but i just want to make more friends yk? i try but then get made fun of it for trying

I totally get what you mean. Personally, I’m very much a people pleaser, I hate when people are upset with me, whether its my own doing or not. I try so hard to fix things even if they’re beyond fixing. And I struggle to let go. That being said though, and its so much easier said than done, they aren’t worth the heartache. You’ll make new better friends, ones who care about your well-being. You have so much time ahead of you, focus on loving yourself and others will follow suit

 

[stvrnova]

if someone can't communicate their potential issues with you and instead choose to put you down or make you feel terrible without even knowing why they are treating you that way, they are absolutely not worth it and you deserve better~ calling you sensitive when confronting them about it says more about them than it does you so I hope you won't worry too much and the right people will come along for you to become good friends with

Thank you so much ! that means a lot to me <33

 

[doll]

You sure? :D

yes!!
i dont let anyone else, but ik u irl n thats what u call me so i thought it shouldnt be any diff

 

[stvrnova]

I totally get what you mean. Personally, I’m very much a people pleaser, I hate when people are upset with me, whether its my own doing or not. I try so hard to fix things even if they’re beyond fixing. And I struggle to let go. That being said though, and its so much easier said than done, they aren’t worth the heartache. You’ll make new better friends, ones who care about your well-being. You have so much time ahead of you, focus on loving yourself and others will follow suit

Thank you <33 Me putting this thread out made me realize I wasn't alone in this situation

 

[stvrnova]

yes!!
i dont let anyone else, but ik u irl n thats what u call me so i thought it shouldnt be any diff

okay thanks! i might still call you vee tho :D

 

[doll]

okay thanks! i might still call you vee tho :D

fine by me <33

 

[stvrnova]

fine by me <33

Okie thanks! <3333

 

[Deleted member 74]

Thank you so much ! that means a lot to me <33

anytime c:
easier said than done of course but even if you were to become friends with them, the signs are there that it wouldn't turn out well ^^

 

[athenaaa]

Thank you <33 Me putting this thread out made me realize I wasn't alone in this situation

You’re never alone and this is a safe place to talk about your feelings 💜

 

[stvrnova]

You’re never alone and this is a safe place to talk about your feelings 💜

Thank you so much <3