if your family is toxic....... (1 Viewer)

[kodoku]

.. in what ways are they toxic..? what do they do? how are they not good for you?

Spoiler: me

for me, there's a million little things they do and words they say..... it's so sick, toxic, dysfunctional .. I cannot, don't know where to start since it would be a looong story but yeah.... thank god I left years ago, even just being here for a few days once a year is too much.. well, even just talking on the phone from another country is too much.. so suffacating and just all wrong.. ://

 

[Yeri]

:/

Spoiler: me

well, idk if this is toxic or not, but they always complain about my body. like "you're to skinny" or "you're too fat" which is a bit controlling for me

 

[daesuki]

Spoiler: me

consant weight checks. they don't really talk about my achievements, and they compare me to my sister. like, that's usual, but she's 10 years my senior. i don't think that that comparing should be a thing to do, esp. with the age gap. they also don't really express anything toward me. my mother does more than my dad tho

 

[Wonpil]

Spoiler: tw

they call me fat tell me i don't deserve to live belittle me tell me that i'm a terrible person for who i love

 

[Ahsoka]

Spoiler

My grandmother is hateful and homophobic and doesn't respect my boundaries. I'm scared of physical affection so much partly because she makes me so uncomfortable with all her affection. I've told her before I need more space and gotten told that I'm a terrible grandchild and I need to get over it and like it because she loves me.

 

[dark_tranquility]

Spoiler: My family

Just really negative, unfeeling and unforgiving to sum it up nicely.
Don't really care for them anymore. Why should I, when they always severely neglect me and just don't care about me...
I know you can't choose your family, but I kind of wish I had a choice to choose.

 

[jasque]

Assuming I'm not the toxic one

 

[yeji]

I think there are some people like that in my life unfortunately