Sensitive I'm having a deja vu moment rn (1 Viewer)

[Chiara]

okay, so this forum is starting to feel like 2007 all over again. in 2007, the forums I frequented at the time were overrun with mean scene kids, and they pm took over the forums. And there was nothing we good guys could do about them, bc they were all friends with the admin. I feel like KPS is turning into one of those. I mean, Username Hall of Shame? Selfmate "hiring deputy username tsars"? Our admin actually buying into it??? I think I need to fall off the forums for a while...

 

[XZCZVSHZKAODJLWS]

im with you, for different reasons, but im with you

 

[HelloGoodbyeDie]

fair

I was on a forum in 2009
but KS is nothing like the one I was on

 

[Selfmate]

okay, so this forum is starting to feel like 2007 all over again. in 2007, the forums I frequented at the time were overrun with mean scene kids, and they pm took over the forums. And there was nothing we good guys could do about them, bc they were all friends with the admin. I feel like KPS is turning into one of those. I mean, Username Hall of Shame? Selfmate "hiring deputy username tsars"? Our admin actually buying into it??? I think I need to fall off the forums for a while...

with all due respect my friend you do realise that my username thingy is really just a gimmick and nothing serious - like I don't actually have the power or authority to police other people's usernames or their changes and it's really just something that I do with people who I consider my friends

 

[Selfmate]

im with you, for different reasons, but im with you

that's because you are one of the people who I have my eyes on - my habitually username changing friend

 

[HelloGoodbyeDie]

with all due respect my friend you do realise that my username thingy is really just a gimmick and nothing serious - like I don't actually have the power or authority to police other people's usernames or their changes and it's really just something that I do with people who I consider my friends

usename thingy makes me laugh
no harm done imo

 

[Selfmate]

usename thingy makes me laugh
no harm done imo

that's my original and still my current intentions however I never want something that I consider fun or interesting to be upsetting for other people
if people start making threads about anything I say or do then obviously it's an issue

 

[XZCZVSHZKAODJLWS]

that's because you are one of the people who I have my eyes on - my habitually username changing friend

trust, my issues here got nothing to do with usernames,
username changing is a masterminds game, and im playing chess x checkers x poker all on one board 😈

 

[HelloGoodbyeDie]

that's my original and still my current intentions however I never want something that I consider fun or interesting to be upsetting for other people
if people start making threads about anything I say or do then obviously it's an issue

thats exactly right
it isn't your intentions to be upsetting users
just a bit of banter
making people laugh or feel good
is a nice trait to possess

 

[Selfmate]

trust, my issues here got nothing to do with usernames,
username changing is a masterminds game, and im playing chess x checkers x poker all on one board 😈

and I'm playing GO!!! lol

 

[Selfmate]

thats exactly right
it isn't your intentions to be upsetting users
just a bit of banter
making people laugh or feel good
is a nice trait to possess

thank you but obviously not everyone either thinks that way or feels the same and even I can understand that sometimes I might take things a bit far which is why it's good to get feedback from others if they don't feel the same way

 

[Pirioca]

I guess it's easy to take some statements too serious when you are a new member and came from a community where you got bullied. Maybe a sticky thread for new members in the Arrivals Hall could help avoiding misunderstandings. Not every person has the same sense of humor - but it should be clear that we're just teasing and that we don't tolerate bullies.

 

[XZCZVSHZKAODJLWS]

we don't tolerate bullies.

debatable