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TW: if you're sensitive to mentions of school violence or self harm skip this for your own safety and take care of yourself
I can't stand this asshole anymore why do i consider him a friend
He said he would off himself over a joke I made that was comparatively not as bad as the things he jokes about. Especially like the time he said he would shoot up the school (passed it off as a joke) mere hours after I vented to him about when I myself experienced being in an actual shooting in August of my freshman year. It stressed me out so much that night that the next day at school I searched his bag to see if he was carrying anything that could be even slightly considered a weapon. I understand if you're struggling and I'm here to console you but what am I doing caring for your life when you're basically taunting and mocking my trauma and suffering. He also made me super uncomfortable a lot like when he said he had a crush on me before he even knew anything about me. Now I should have known this was a red flag because if you've read my threads about that 18yo girl I had dated she said the same thing and she turned out to be a weirdo. Something in the back of my head told me I was making an arbitrary connection between the two things which I can assure you I wasn't; the two of them actually used to date. Brings me to the next problem actually, which has to do with his new gf (not 18yo)
One day the two of us were on the phone and while he was calling me he was apparently also looking at his gfs dms and randomly during the phone call he said "Oh! my gf just sent me something" and I assumed it was the obvious (cmon we're all slightly mature here) and I was like oh ok tmi dude but good for you and the another day when I'm talking to his gf [he wasn't at school that day] I mentioned it to her and she said "That's weird for him to say because I never sent him anything" again a red flag so now I was really starting to get uncomfortable around him because if he lied about something like that what else about himself could he have lied to me about? I also had to ask multiple times, basically beg him, to wear a shirt when he video calls me bc it made me uncomfortable and he kept insisting that "it's fine" and "it's just how I am when I'm at my house". I also hate how he always bitches and whines about not having many friends but when I talked to my friends they had told me he acted super weird with them too and according to one of my good friends has a, let's just say strange not-so-familial bond with his sister
I think I just need to stop being so forgiving and giving folks so many chances because he doesn't deserve to have someone like me in his life when he honestly treats me like shit
I can't stand this asshole anymore why do i consider him a friend
He said he would off himself over a joke I made that was comparatively not as bad as the things he jokes about. Especially like the time he said he would shoot up the school (passed it off as a joke) mere hours after I vented to him about when I myself experienced being in an actual shooting in August of my freshman year. It stressed me out so much that night that the next day at school I searched his bag to see if he was carrying anything that could be even slightly considered a weapon. I understand if you're struggling and I'm here to console you but what am I doing caring for your life when you're basically taunting and mocking my trauma and suffering. He also made me super uncomfortable a lot like when he said he had a crush on me before he even knew anything about me. Now I should have known this was a red flag because if you've read my threads about that 18yo girl I had dated she said the same thing and she turned out to be a weirdo. Something in the back of my head told me I was making an arbitrary connection between the two things which I can assure you I wasn't; the two of them actually used to date. Brings me to the next problem actually, which has to do with his new gf (not 18yo)
One day the two of us were on the phone and while he was calling me he was apparently also looking at his gfs dms and randomly during the phone call he said "Oh! my gf just sent me something" and I assumed it was the obvious (cmon we're all slightly mature here) and I was like oh ok tmi dude but good for you and the another day when I'm talking to his gf [he wasn't at school that day] I mentioned it to her and she said "That's weird for him to say because I never sent him anything" again a red flag so now I was really starting to get uncomfortable around him because if he lied about something like that what else about himself could he have lied to me about? I also had to ask multiple times, basically beg him, to wear a shirt when he video calls me bc it made me uncomfortable and he kept insisting that "it's fine" and "it's just how I am when I'm at my house". I also hate how he always bitches and whines about not having many friends but when I talked to my friends they had told me he acted super weird with them too and according to one of my good friends has a, let's just say strange not-so-familial bond with his sister
I think I just need to stop being so forgiving and giving folks so many chances because he doesn't deserve to have someone like me in his life when he honestly treats me like shit