Official LGBTIQ+ Support Thread (7 Viewers)

[snsd2beg]

Misgendered? Some users are a little dense/don't pay any attention to the sidebar so if you let them know I'm sure they will be apologetic. I would hope nobody on this site would do it maliciously. It is always disappointing though

It's just frustrating because it's EVERY time someone talks about me on here.

 

[BlingyBlinger]

It's just frustrating because it's EVERY time someone talks about me on here.

If it's one specific user then gosh... Might get staff involved? It's supposed to be a safe environment here after all

If it's multiple users maybe I can post a psa?

 

[snsd2beg]

I'm afraid to come out as a type of genderfluid / polygender to my friends because that would be an excuse for them to use she/her :|
But, honestly, what did I expect? People on here even use she/her for me ( Though some do NOT, and I'm happy because it gives me euphoria ) Did I spell that correctly?!!!?!?!?

I saw. I'm sorry. It sucks. (and yes, you did spell it correctly)
It truly feels impossible sometimes. But honestly, if your friends use she/her, they're not people worth keeping

 

[sooya_]

I saw. I'm sorry. It sucks. (and yes, you did spell it correctly)
It truly feels impossible sometimes. But honestly, if your friends use she/her, they're not people worth keeping

I just don't want to hurt them... Cus if I have no friends... What use am I? I wish I had the courage to tell them, but I'm so nervous because I don't wanna be even more alone.

 

[snsd2beg]

If it's one specific user then gosh... Might get staff involved? It's supposed to be a safe environment here after all

If it's multiple users maybe I can post a psa?

It's multiple, but I think doing a psa wouldn't do much besides humiliate me.
I tried to pose as a cis man on here for months, but it didn't change anything. People makes assumptions regardless.

 

[snsd2beg]

I just don't want to hurt them... Cus if I have no friends... What use am I? I wish I had the courage to tell them, but I'm so nervous because I don't wanna be even more alone.

Maybe you don't necessarily have to give them all the details? You don't have to tell them about your labels, just the pronouns they should use. That's what I did

 

[sooya_]

Maybe you don't necessarily have to give them all the details? You don't have to tell them about your labels, just the pronouns they should use. That's what I did

I never really thought like it that way... Wow... I've always just TOLD them my labels because I felt if I didn't, no one would understand me. And I took the opportunity to tell them since I can't talk about it at home... It's very simple, yet I never thought of it Thank you, I appreciate you

 

[Abeamus]

It's multiple, but I think doing a psa wouldn't do much besides humiliate me.
I tried to pose as a cis man on here for months, but it didn't change anything. People makes assumptions regardless.

As a guy who is soley into girl groups I still had people shocked at the revelation I wasn't a girl so it's just something where people are going to assume based on Kpop that you're more likely a girl.

If it's something that is important to you then you should just politely correct them though as while it might get tiring however people who care about being respectful to you will pay attention when addressing you in the future and people who don't aren't worth worrying about.

 

[BlingyBlinger]

It's multiple, but I think doing a psa wouldn't do much besides humiliate me.
I tried to pose as a cis man on here for months, but it didn't change anything. People makes assumptions regardless.

It doesn't need to name anyone specifically! Especially since you don't seem to be the only one but if you're still uncomfy with that I won't ^^


My turn to rant: not knowing if your psychiatrist is lgbt friendly is stressful as hell. I should have thought of this but I was in a bad place at the time and not thinking. I used to feel like I could trust my mother but she changed

 

[snsd2beg]

If it's one specific user then gosh... Might get staff involved? It's supposed to be a safe environment here after all

Now that you mention it, it is a little suspicious that the two openly trans users in the post I was looking at were misgendered and no one else...
I'm choosing to believe it was a coincidence, but it's something I'll keep an eye on.

 

[sooya_]

I attend the pride club at my school and we are going to get some hoodies with subtle pride related things, I'm excited

 

[BlingyBlinger]

I attend the pride club at my school and we are going to get some hoodies with subtle pride related things, I'm excited

Ooooo congrats!


I think I'm going to talk to my psychiatrist about helping me convince my parents to let me go to meetups at the local pride center I really just need someone there with me when I ask about it

 

[sooya_]

Ooooo congrats!


I think I'm going to talk to my psychiatrist about helping me convince my parents to let me go to meetups at the local pride center I really just need someone there with me when I ask about it

OMG, that's so awesome!!! I hope you can go and have fun!!!

 

[BlingyBlinger]

OMG, that's so awesome!!! I hope you can go and have fun!!!

I'm really hoping so! They have grown more the "everything's woke nowadays" type so I'm definitely a bit nervous

 

[BlingyBlinger]

I think I'm going to talk to my psychiatrist about helping me convince my parents to let me go to meetups at the local pride center I really just need someone there with me when I ask about it

I talked to mother alone, we debated a bit and I think it went well? It was very nervewracking though

 

[sooya_]

some DEMIFLUID bingo :D

 

[sooya_]

a little rant:
whenever I find a label, I get scared. like, why do I have to explain to someone so they understand? why can't they just know it? I mean, I get it, microlabels r hard and all, but still.
I am barely happy with the labels I get, I wonder y???

 

[sooya_]

I really wish I was born a male :(

 

[sooya_]

like i'll never be passing. and idk, if I wasn't born a boy, why do I have to waste my energy on wishing on something that will never happen?

 

[sooya_]

lol