Men don't want natural women? (1 Viewer)

[Ashla_K]

Watch this post and tell me what you think.

 

[Ahsoka]

Limiting yourself or changing yourself for someone else is a bad idea generally because its really not that easy to figure out what someone really wants, especially in something like relationships that arent exactly as formulaic as people pretend. Thats also why I always think ideal types are ridiculous because if someone is exactly like your ideal type are you really honestly going to fall in love with them just because of that? I think trying to change yourself to become a better person is great but changing yourself because someone says they like that kind of person isnt really worth it.

 

[Ineul_Ze]

She's completely right though. Most men these days claim that they want girls who are natural yet go after the exact opposite or when a girl is natural they criticize her for it. I genuinely think men don't know the difference between a girl with make-up and a girl without any. They have posts under Kylie Jenners Instagram where she's wearing light make-up telling her how beautiful she is for not wearing make up and how other women should do the same. They don't really want what they keep asking for.

I was lucky enough to find someone who actually did care for natural beauty, I can't stand make-up and he can't either so we good.

 

[Ashla_K]

She's completely right though. Most men these days claim that they want girls who are natural yet go after the exact opposite or when a girl is natural they criticize her for it. I genuinely think men don't know the difference between a girl with make-up and a girl without any. They have posts under Kylie Jenners Instagram where she's wearing light make-up telling her how beautiful she is for not wearing make up and how other women should do the same. They don't really want what they keep asking for.

I was lucky enough to find someone who actually did care for natural beauty, I can't stand make-up and he can't either so we good.

I know what you mean, I'm not a big fan of makeup myself and it honestly makes me feel uncomfortable. When it comes to men, it doesn't matter what you do, if you really don't appeal to them, there's no makeup or surgeon in this world who can fix that for you.

 

[Ashla_K]

Limiting yourself or changing yourself for someone else is a bad idea generally because its really not that easy to figure out what someone really wants, especially in something like relationships that arent exactly as formulaic as people pretend. Thats also why I always think ideal types are ridiculous because if someone is exactly like your ideal type are you really honestly going to fall in love with them just because of that? I think trying to change yourself to become a better person is great but changing yourself because someone says they like that kind of person isnt really worth it.

I think so as well, that decision should be made by ourselves for ourselves.

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

I mean I don't think I've ever met a man who describes their ideal type as a natural woman except for on TV maybe?

So uh lol

 

[taemkitten]

I've always seemed to run into this unfortunately. I hate wearing make up, but despite all my exes knowing this they always insisted I would "look much better if I put on make up."

I even had an ex force me once to put on make up before I went out with him.

I know there are men out there that dont care one way or the other, but those that claim they want a natural girl and then go for the opposite or raves about a girl decked out in make up it just.....

 

[Ashla_K]

I know there are men out there that dont care one way or the other, but those that claim they want a natural girl and then go for the opposite or raves about a girl decked out in make up it just.....

The audacity...

 

[Key_the_VIP]

I hate makeup and refuse to wear it. Ain't nobody got time to care about what men want.

 

[Walnutt]

I hope what I write doesn't offend anyone, it's just my opinion.

For me, it's the confidence that I find attractive. Not trying to generalize, but a lot of people feel and act more confident in themselves when they are happy with how they look. Sadly, a lot of women feel self-conscious without makeup. Body language and how you carry yourself plays a huge part in attraction. But you should always do what makes you happy! As long as you do that, you'll find people in life that appreciate and respect that.

 

[lexus]

Never let a man tell you how to look. If they really like you then there's going to like you whether or not you have fake hair, makeup, nice clothes, etc. Physical appearance isn't everything.

 

[blueberries]

She's completely right though. Most men these days claim that they want girls who are natural yet go after the exact opposite or when a girl is natural they criticize her for it. I genuinely think men don't know the difference between a girl with make-up and a girl without any. They have posts under Kylie Jenners Instagram where she's wearing light make-up telling her how beautiful she is for not wearing make up and how other women should do the same. They don't really want what they keep asking for.

I was lucky enough to find someone who actually did care for natural beauty, I can't stand make-up and he can't either so we good.

Newssites do that too, they post "no make up" pics of celebs praising their natural faces and when u look it it's just face full of make up. The no make up look can have as much make up as make up look tbh

 

[yeji]

I never really liked Make-Up and are way to lazy to put some on everyday. It should not even matter if someone wears make-up- There are much more important things in life

 

[Loona]

Oh well I don't want any of them anyway so idc what men want :pepecheer:

She has a point tho.

 

[Ashla_K]

I hate makeup and refuse to wear it. Ain't nobody got time to care about what men want.

 

[Ashla_K]

I never really liked Make-Up and are way to lazy to put some on everyday. It should not even matter if someone wears make-up- There are much more important things in life

You're an intellectual.
:pepeaww:

 

[Ashla_K]

Newssites do that too, they post "no make up" pics of celebs praising their natural faces and when u look it it's just face full of make up. The no make up look can have as much make up as make up look tbh

This is true. There was even the no- makeup-but- a- lot- of-makeup trend once. With the new techniques and products, one can have layers and layers and still look like nothing.

 

[Ashla_K]

I hope what I write doesn't offend anyone, it's just my opinion.

For me, it's the confidence that I find attractive. Not trying to generalize, but a lot of people feel and act more confident in themselves when they are happy with how they look. Sadly, a lot of women feel self-conscious without makeup. Body language and how you carry yourself plays a huge part in attraction. But you should always do what makes you happy! As long as you do that, you'll find people in life that appreciate and respect that.

You're right. I don't have anything against women who like makeup and heck, every girl at some point have found themselves trying to be more beautiful through it but I think the point for whom. Are you doing it for yourself or to please others? that's the most important thing on this issue.

 

[jasque]

I have no problem with ps, but it's not something I demand either.