My boyfriend broke up with me (1 Viewer)

[ChiaraStar169]

Hey, remember when I told you that if he broke your heart, I'd break his face? So LEMME AT HIM!

actually, on second thought - I'm so tiny he'd probably win out. *picks up phone* Hey, Yeonjun - can you do me a huge favor...?

 

[ADORA]

Hey, remember when I told you that if he broke your heart, I'd break his face? So LEMME AT HIM!

Lets do that together

 

[ChiaraStar169]

Lets do that together

YAAAAAAAAASSSSSSS teamwork makes the dream work and all that!

 

[scaramouche]

i can't wait to see you tomorrow love....
he bouta have a bad day

 

[Areum]

Hey, remember when I told you that if he broke your heart, I'd break his face? So LEMME AT HIM!

Gladly

 

[ADORA]

YAAAAAAAAASSSSSSS teamwork makes the dream work and all that!

And all that but yassssssss

 

[izcream]

stay strong! things may be hard for you rn but trust me, it'll get better. i'm always here for you if you need a listening ear <3

 

[LeeriaYa]

An open relationship has to be discussed. What he actually did is classified as cheating because open relationships need to have both understanding from both parties so what he was doing is trying to absolve from guilt from himself. It has nothing to do with you. It’s more someone who wanted to take quick routes because unless it’s discussed on doing open. Then the relationship is seen as monogamy. I don’t do open relationships, but like you I don’t care if others do them. It sounds like he was trying to guilt trip you into believing his reasoning for doing it.

I hope you take care of yourself, but don’t cut yourself and sell yourself short that you did something wrong. This is completely on him and he’s a bitter for doing this. You cared, and loved him and that’s all you could do. It’s up to you what you should decide next, but I don’t recommend going back to someone who “assumed you’re in an open relationship”you Deserve better. Remember you even said yourself he only told you because she found out. Work on healing and taking care of yourself. People like this will only hurt your growth. Good luck.

 

[Deleted member 74]

did he think you could read his mind and know he wanted an open relationship..you deserve way better than this kind of treatment. you did everything you could for the relationship so there is nothing on your part to regret, let yourself be sad and slowly but surely you'll move forward and wherever you both stand with each other after this, he's broken a trust that can't be regained forever and that's all his fault, for technically cheating/making excuses for it, you can't call it an open relationship if one person wasn't made aware. I wish you strength and happiness him not being able to value you and see your worth is not your problem, someone right and better for you eventually will, and you'll be so glad later that things with this person didn't work out the way you wanted

 

[Areum]

stay strong! things may be hard for you rn but trust me, it'll get better. i'm always here for you if you need a listening ear <3

It was hard; I cried so hard yesterday I had a migraine for 4 hours last night but I'm feeling a lot better today; thank you

An open relationship has to be discussed. What he actually did is classified as cheating because open relationships need to have both understanding from both parties so what he was doing is trying to absolve from guilt from himself. It has nothing to do with you. It’s more someone who wanted to take quick routes because unless it’s discussed on doing open. Then the relationship is seen as monogamy. I don’t do open relationships, but like you I don’t care if others do them. It sounds like he was trying to guilt trip you into believing his reasoning for doing it.

I hope you take care of yourself, but don’t cut yourself and sell yourself short that you did something wrong. This is completely on him and he’s a bitter for doing this. You cared, and loved him and that’s all you could do. It’s up to you what you should decide next, but I don’t recommend going back to someone who “assumed you’re in an open relationship”you Deserve better. Remember you even said yourself he only told you because she found out. Work on healing and taking care of yourself. People like this will only hurt your growth. Good luck.

I know!! I think we're better off as just friends; thank you for this I needed to hear it

did he think you could read his mind and know he wanted an open relationship..you deserve way better than this kind of treatment. you did everything you could for the relationship so there is nothing on your part to regret, let yourself be sad and slowly but surely you'll move forward and wherever you both stand with each other after this, he's broken a trust that can't be regained forever and that's all his fault, for technically cheating/making excuses for it, you can't call it an open relationship if one person wasn't made aware. I wish you strength and happiness him not being able to value you and see your worth is not your problem, someone right and better for you eventually will, and you'll be so glad later that things with this person didn't work out the way you wanted

Yea communication is very important for a relationship to work; I'm happier now than I was yesterday; thank you for your concern

Thanks all of you; we talked this morning and we decided to be friends; he even asked if it was ok if he still flirts with me and I was like idk cuz then I'd want to run back to you so let's just be best friends for now
One of my best friends isn't here today so it'll be a little lonely just for today since he leaves during 2nd block and comes back at the end of lunch which is our hangout time in the friend group; I'll be ok; thank you for all the support everyone has given me and thank for being here to listen to me

 

[yeji]

Thank you; I'm better now but I know it'll hurt for at least a few more days/couple of weeks; I'm trying

I know you are but you won’t be alone

 

[Areum]

I know you are but you won’t be alone

Thank you so much

 

[yeji]

Thank you so much

always honey