My dear girlies... (1 Viewer)

[kodoku]

do you look after other girls? 👩‍❤️‍👩

obviously, I believe people in general should look after each other and take care of animals and this whole planet as well, but I'm talking about this specific thing right now.. I'm sure we've all experienced pettiness, gossip, malice, envy..... and that we've all noticed that society and the media kinda want girls to compete against each other and bring each other down (which does happen, let's be honest..).. so how about you? do you go along with it or are you different? what's an example you could give and what are your thoughts/feelings on this?

Spoiler: me

I met this girl who inspired me to make this thread..... I'll call her girl A.......you'd think she isn't real until you meet her.. girl A is disliked but stated with a smile "everybody loves me", and that she's the hottest girl at our work place lol. She only talks about her nails and stretch marks and stuff like that, I swear I'm not making this up. She is also obsessed with this other girl whom she sees as her rival, let's call her girl B (girl B looks like a model, is smart and nice, hardworking...) So yeah, seeing how jealous she always is, how badly she talks about her for no reason reminded me of a lot of things and made me question stuff...... anyway I think I'm supportive of other girls, I'm usually happy if they do well. Don't get me wrong, I compare myself to them and wish I was this or that, but not in a way that would ever harm anyone but myself.. I've gotten better though and I'm still working on it :D

 

[melancholia]

yes

if you and I aren’t in good terms I make sure that you can still come and talk to me. With my ex-female friends I would talk behind there back but that only if they talked behind my back or something but as I got older I realized that doing such is stupid and it’s not helping anyone. Now some of the people I befriend are two-faced and after they wrong me I keep to myself and write in my diary or confide in my sister, but I make sure not to say anything ill-wittied. but for my girlies I always put it out there if you wanna talk about anything then let’s talk. If I see a boy making a girl uncomfortable I always step in. I’m so proud to see girls do well. Because instead of tearing each other down, we should be fixing each other’s crowns.

 

[Jimimis]

You gotta introduce me to girl A we’ll get along so nicely

 

[kodoku]

You gotta introduce me to girl A we’ll get along so nicely

will you silently listen to her, compliment her, and agree with her all the time? xD

 

[Jimimis]

will you silently listen to her, compliment her, and agree with her all the time? xD

A narcissist’s gotta prop up another narcissist’s ego then it’ll be my turn to bitch

 

[SaviorITZY]

Depends, if I'm in a Male dominated room and I see few women and an even fewer # of women then yes. However I'm still in HS so some female are just vindictive for no reason

 

[JoanaIsHere]

The girls in my class are kinda mean (not to me I just don’t want to get involved) so I don’t talk to them often but they still have the option to come to me to talk👌👌

 

[Mew]

I actually don't know how to answer this... as i've never really thought about it.
I've have this sort of overall everyone is the same thought process until i get deeper into their individual traits.
But i suppose having gone to an all girls school didn't present a good representation of supportive women (It was hell lol) but then females don't gravitate towards me much, i wouldn't really know if i'm supportive to my own or not, i don't really do the bitchy things women are stereotypical said to do and i'm pretty striaght forward with any problem that i may have with a girl or guy... but i guess that why few females i did interact with during school and college would say 'you're so pretty but you're like a guy'... cause my interests weren't in the same realm as there's but i was fine with that just a little isolated from my gender i suppose.
The only female friend i have says i'm loyal and supportive but that more because she's my friend not because she a girl...