[NFR] How long after sending a DM should you assume they’re ignoring you? (1 Viewer)

[athenaaa]

I’m horrible at understanding if someone is just busy or if they’re ignoring/ghosting me ​

 

[Yili]

Tbh if I don't reply to people it's 99.99999% because I forgot

 

[athenaaa]

Tbh if I don't reply to people it's 99.99999% because I forgot

Okay mood

I meant more like after repeated attempts to contact cause its been like a month

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

Depends on the person. If I don't respond it's because I forgot or got distracted.

 

[Ahsoka]

I was going to say depends on if @Yili is the person in question but she’s already here

 

[athenaaa]

I was going to say depends on if @Yili is the person in question but she’s already here

If it was Yili I would’ve called her out directly

 

[sydsisco]

If it's been a month and you have tried multiple times they may be ignoring you, (and I don't know the situation lol) but they might just be going through something personal

 

[Magician]

Tbh if I don't reply to people it's 99.99999% because I forgot

Same
Sometimes I see that people sent me a message or quote me and then I think: "okay I’m gonna reply after work…" but then I forget to ever reply

 

[mysteric]

never, I've accidentally ghosted people for nearly a year before

 

[mysteric]

Same
Sometimes I see that people sent me a message or quote me and then I think: "okay I’m gonna reply after work…" but then I forget to ever reply

or it's like I don't have the mental capacity to do anything for now... and then I never get back

 

[Haiku]

It depends tbh...

 

[Magician]

or it's like I don't have the mental capacity to do anything for now... and then I never get back

Yup so true

 

[lexus]

Girl I forgot to reply

 

[doll]

uhhh
i b ghosting for no reason
i read every message I get, just don't respond
its not personal I just don't care

 

[athenaaa]

Girl I forgot to reply

This was about an irl friend… I should’ve indicated that. I’m sorry

 

[athenaaa]

uhhh
i b ghosting for no reason
i read every message I get, just don't respond
its not personal I just don't care

I don’t like having a full inbox so I at least react to a message if I can’t respond (if I remember to respond)

 

[eclipsoul]

never unless i sent an important question more than once and they left me on read, but if it's something like a how are you then i'd rather think they're too busy to reply than ghosting me

 

[Michael]

If the days pass, they are posting on the forum, and yet no reply; that probably means so.

 

[Abeamus]

Unless you know they've been active and normal you shouldn't assume there's a problem since even someone who might usually be super active maybe they just reach a breaking point and become less active for a bit so just wait on them to respond and move on with your life in the mean time