Okay but the whole nct jisung thing :/ (1 Viewer)

[tai]

I genuinely cannot understand what jisung's problem is 😭😭 man has to be projecting or sum cuz how he gonna talk about hyucks skintone when he looks darker than him 😭😭😭

 

[hxney_jun]

i kinda don't know what to say about that honestly, because on one hand i know what he said was wrong- but on the other i also feel like there wasn't ill intent behind it, even though what he said was problematic for pretty obvious reasons...

 

[tai]

i kinda don't know what to say about that honestly, because on one hand i know what he said was wrong- but on the other i also feel like there wasn't ill intent behind it, even though what he said was problematic for pretty obvious reasons...

Bros been doing this for so long I rlly can't believe he has no Ill intent 😭😭😭

 

[hxney_jun]

Bros been doing this for so long I rlly can't believe he has no Ill intent 😭😭😭

genuine question, and i don't mean to mock you, but are you familiar with dream?

 

[tai]

genuine question, and i don't mean to mock you, but are you familiar with dream?

I used to ULT them a few months back. But yanno I stopped keeping up with kpop for a while tbh

 

[hxney_jun]

I used to ULT them a few months back. But yanno I stopped keeping up with kpop for a while tbh

ohh okay, that makes sense.
anyways, im sure you know the type of dynamic they have as a group then- they're harsher on each other in terms of joking and stuff.
that being said, i def think this is something he needs to own up to because you're right, this isn't okay, but also i seriously don't think he means it to harm haechan? they're known for making crude remarks like that with each other, but at the end of day we don't know what kind of relationship they have behind the camera, so i think its best to not speculate harshly.

at the end of the day, im just hoping he learns from this, apologizes, and moves on.

 

[tai]

ohh okay, that makes sense.
anyways, im sure you know the type of dynamic they have as a group then- they're harsher on each other in terms of joking and stuff.
that being said, i def think this is something he needs to own up to because you're right, this isn't okay, but also i seriously don't think he means it to harm haechan? they're known for making crude remarks like that with each other, but at the end of day we don't know what kind of relationship they have behind the camera, so i think its best to not speculate harshly.

at the end of the day, im just hoping he learns from this, apologizes, and moves on.

But colorism shouldn't be something you joke about 😭😭😭😭 not to mention hyuck was in a whole nother country when this happened 😭

 

[hxney_jun]

But colorism shouldn't be something you joke about 😭😭😭😭 not to mention hyuck was in a whole nother country when this happened 😭

that's why im saying what he did was wrong, a lot of asian countries are so fucking colorist and think its funny (im asian, fyi in case someone goes omg that's so rude), like you'd be astonished how backwards it be sometimes but that's why we can't assume the intent behind it, that's why its important to make sure the point gets across, and that's why its important he apologizes. the dreamies are super important to me, and esp jisung because i've have a soft spot so i know i probably sound like some loser refusing to acknowledge his wrongs because deep down my heart wishes that this wasn't what he did, but he did do it, and i really really want him to understand this is wrong, but also seeing people wish death upon him and assuming he bullies the rest of the dreamies is really upsetting

anyways, you're absolutely right, but i hope you also get my point.

 

[tai]

that's why im saying what he did was wrong, a lot of asian countries are so fucking colorist and think its funny (im asian, fyi in case someone goes omg that's so rude), like you'd be astonished how backwards it be sometimes but that's why we can't assume the intent behind it, that's why its important to make sure the point gets across, and that's why its important he apologizes. the dreamies are super important to me, and esp jisung because i've have a soft spot so i know i probably sound like some loser refusing to acknowledge his wrongs because deep down my heart wishes that this wasn't what he did, but he did do it, and i really really want him to understand this is wrong, but also seeing people wish death upon him and assuming he bullies the rest of the dreamies is really upsetting

anyways, you're absolutely right, but i hope you also get my point.

No I do I do 😔😔 but seeing ppl send him dts is literally so uncalled for tbh

 

[hxney_jun]

No I do I do 😔😔 but seeing ppl send him dts is literally so uncalled for tbh

yes it really iss :((
anyways, im sorry if i sounded like an apologist at all, cause really i don't stand for this shit or justify it since im also often told that im not light enough and i know how hurtful things like that can be to a person's image

 

[tai]

yes it really iss :((
anyways, im sorry if i sounded like an apologist at all, cause really i don't stand for this shit or justify it since im also often told that im not light enough and i know how hurtful things like that can be to a person's image

Tbh I just wish they would educate him or something. Like I'm not saying he's not at fault but still 😔

 

[hxney_jun]

Tbh I just wish they would educate him or something. Like I'm not saying he's not at fault but still 😔

yeah def. he grew up very sheltered in general, and the fact that jokes like this are pretty common in asian countries doesn't really help his case, hopefully he'll get the message and apologize. i'd assume that if he's still saying stuff like this no one's really minded it, or was there to tell him that its not okay. there's also a time and a place for jokes because i know humor and inside jokes really differ from person to person.

 

[tai]

yeah def. he grew up very sheltered in general, and the fact that jokes like this are pretty common in asian countries doesn't really help his case, hopefully he'll get the message and apologize. i'd assume that if he's still saying stuff like this no one's really minded it, or was there to tell him that its not okay. there's also a time and a place for jokes because i know humor and inside jokes really differ from person to person.

Yeah fr fr

 

[Kamistar]

The beauty standard there is pale skin and it looks like it's something far to be changed :( This type of thing still happens a lot

 

[cocomelon]

I DONT CARE TF JISUNG SAYS OR IF HES JOKING OR NOT, BUT HAECHAN HAS THE MOST GORGEOUS SKIN IN ALL OF KPOP HE GOT BITCHES MAD THATS ALL I KNOW

 

[Juniverse]

I don't like NCT Dream for a specific reason. They (sans Mark) often put Haechan down for his weight and skin color, to the point where he gets upset and they have to tell him it's "just a joke".

If you have to tell someone you're joking with them, it's not funny. Period.

And I often see people saying things like "we don't know about their relationship" it's still obviously rude and uncalled for, regardless of what we know about them. There are dozens of other ways to joke with your friends.

 

[cocomelon]

I don't like NCT Dream for a specific reason. They (sans Mark) often put Haechan down for his weight and skin color, to the point where he gets upset and they have to tell him it's "just a joke".

If you have to tell someone you're joking with them, it's not funny. Period.

And I often see people saying things like "we don't know about their relationship" it's still obviously rude and uncalled for, regardless of what we know about them. There are dozens of other ways to joke with your friends.

i agree even though i stan nct dream. its pretty tasteless and uncalled for and it sucks cause i love haechan and his skin colour is so pretty :<

 

[tai]

I DONT CARE TF JISUNG SAYS OR IF HES JOKING OR NOT, BUT HAECHAN HAS THE MOST GORGEOUS SKIN IN ALL OF KPOP HE GOT BITCHES MAD THATS ALL I KNOW

ONG HYUCK IS SO BEAUTIFUL

 

[tai]

I don't like NCT Dream for a specific reason. They (sans Mark) often put Haechan down for his weight and skin color, to the point where he gets upset and they have to tell him it's "just a joke".

If you have to tell someone you're joking with them, it's not funny. Period.

And I often see people saying things like "we don't know about their relationship" it's still obviously rude and uncalled for, regardless of what we know about them. There are dozens of other ways to joke with your friends.

It's the fact when jisung said this 'joke' this time Haechan was in a whole other country :/