Please tell me if I'm wrong (1 Viewer)

[Magician]

So, my friend met this guy at her workplace several weeks ago. They fooled around a bit, my friend fell in love and then she learned that the guy has a girlfriend (they also live together).
This didn't stop my friend, because she told herself he would leave his girlfriend for her.
The guy always told her some weak excuses why he can't leave his girlfriend, like if she moves out then he can't pay the rent anymore.
My friend then offered to pay for his rent, so he can throw his girlfriend out.

And I was shocked? Because first, the guy use her as an easy hookup and second, the girlfriend doesn't know about it! And now my friend wants to pay his rent!
She told me that I have no clue and won't understand her. Am I really crazy for thinking that is all wrong and he just wants to use her?
And I also feel sorry for the girlfriend, because their behavior is horrible.

 

[Myco]

I don't wanna insult anyone but this is just evil, let's say it like that. The guy will do the same to your friend if another girl comes running up to him, doubt he'll stay permanent/loyal with her

 

[brekker]

this happened to one of my friends as well. stupid, really, nothing else to say here. some people just do enjoy digging their own graves. just be here for her the day she breaks up with him.

but that´s just .... no.

 

[blueberries]

While i think it's possible to fall in out of love while still holding into that relationship for convenience sake... i think it's quite wrong to keep dragging it out like that. The guy can't decide what he wants maybe he wants both the current convinience of his gf and this relationship with ur friend and ur friend will keep dragging it out in the hopes he will eventually choose her.. and the most hurt party will be the gf. He needs to decide and ur friend needs to stop until he decides... at least. Though i'd be very concerned if the guy who cheats long term and wants to keep both relationships is rly someone trustworthy to have relationship with.

 

[Mangoey]

You're definitely not in the wrong
This is awful behavior from both of them tbh, I feel really bad for the guy's girlfriend. Do you think you could tell her what's been going on?

 

[Handcrafted]

So, my friend met this guy at her workplace several weeks ago. They fooled around a bit, my friend fell in love and then she learned that the guy has a girlfriend (they also live together).
This didn't stop my friend, because she told herself he would leave his girlfriend for her.
The guy always told her some weak excuses why he can't leave his girlfriend, like if she moves out then he can't pay the rent anymore.
My friend then offered to pay for his rent, so he can throw his girlfriend out.

And I was shocked? Because first, the guy use her as an easy hookup and second, the girlfriend doesn't know about it! And now my friend wants to pay his rent!
She told me that I have no clue and won't understand her. Am I really crazy for thinking that is all wrong and he just wants to use her?
And I also feel sorry for the girlfriend, because their behavior is horrible.

You’re not wrong that’s just terrible… talk some sense into your friend