i wish i didn't know about this but now that i do all i wonder is what are you even doing at your big age
some situations should be left to those who are more aware of certain things and it's much better to mind your own business instead of doing what no one needed or asked you to. i can't say i'm disappointed because at the end of the day i don't care much about what people who aren't my family or friends do but it's embarassing to say the least. you should have just stayed at your old little home the way you did for the 99% of your time until now.